Lone parent, 3DDs (two teens, one also has ADHD, and a 7YO) and I have ADHD and work 30 hours a week, study 20 hours a week.
Laundry has always been fucking awful for me. But we moved house last year, and now have a bathroom big enough for laundry baskets.
I’ve got 3 of the largest IKEA white plastic box ones (they’re meant to be for recycling, they stack, are easy to carry, and fit 1 load of clothes per box), 1 for whites, 1 for darks, 1 for colours and 1 small one (reusable face cloths, we get through about 10 a day between our various skin care routines + cleaning cloths).
I didn’t used to wash whites separately however their new schools have white shirts, they all wear a clean one every day.
New house also has a small utility room with washing machine, dryer, worktop, sink and shelves. It’s been a game changer not having it in my food space.
Whites are done every Saturday morning, the rest is done whenever there is a full load. I don’t start washing more until the first lot is washed, dried AND put away. It’s the putting away part that takes me 10-28 working days, so my teens do that now in exchange for extra pocket money.
I use my dryer as we have a tiny amount of outside space (as in, enough for the bins!), the house is old/listed/single glazed and I battle with mould/condensation enough as it is without adding to it (have two behemoth dehumidifiers, window vac etc) and frankly I don’t have time to fuck about it winter. In summer I do use a clothes horse outside.
It’s the job I hate the most, so the faster it’s over, the better.