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Could I be blocked by my friend

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Safarigiraffe · 02/02/2023 17:51

Hi last messaged my friend Tuesday on WhatsApp and it’s been on 1 tick since then (last seen is showing for that day) I messaged her today on iMessage and it’s saying that it’s been sent as a text message (green bubble)
No issues between us as far as I know so could I be blocked or is this just a phone issue on her side (she has iPhone)
Thanks everyone

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LilLilLi · 02/02/2023 18:27

If you can see “last seen” you’re not blocked.

It sounds like she may have lost or damaged her phone, if she had no internet and iMessages went through as a text like it sounds like here, she would still receive the text and respond.

Does she live alone? Might be worth popping round to check she’s ok.

LostMyMarblesToday · 02/02/2023 18:28

It sounds like she hasn't used her phone since last Tuesday. Might be off, especially as your call is going straight to voicemail (and iMessage would switch to green if phone is off).
Id try contact a mutual friend/anyone else that knows her.

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Safarigiraffe · 02/02/2023 18:29

She lives with her partner

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pigwood · 02/02/2023 18:34

Is there any way to check on it she is ok ? If she was my friend and this was out of character, I would be worried I think.
Hope she is ok OP

ClockworkBlue · 02/02/2023 18:36

Safarigiraffe · 02/02/2023 18:29

She lives with her partner

Can you get in touch with her partner on social media perhaps?

WestBridgewater · 02/02/2023 19:30

I know this is old school but does she have a landline?

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Safarigiraffe · 02/02/2023 20:49

Just tried phoning again but her phone went to voicemail however it’s not like her to not reply back since Tuesday unless she’s gone away with her partner last min idk

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RipWheelersBeard · 02/02/2023 20:51

Are you friends with her on Facebook? If so on messenger you can usually see when someone was last online

Thatiswild · 02/02/2023 20:55

Can you pop round to her house? Check if everything is ok, sounds like maybe either lost her phone or poorly.

catfunk · 02/02/2023 20:55

Bit of a weird assumption that she's blocked you, if she's genuinely a friend try her partner or something ?

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Safarigiraffe · 02/02/2023 20:59

RipWheelersBeard · 02/02/2023 20:51

Are you friends with her on Facebook? If so on messenger you can usually see when someone was last online

She’s not on facebook

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Safarigiraffe · 02/02/2023 21:00

Thatiswild · 02/02/2023 20:55

Can you pop round to her house? Check if everything is ok, sounds like maybe either lost her phone or poorly.

She’s moved with her partner to another area so not sure of her new address as they are renting

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Bankofrave · 02/02/2023 21:01

Lost her phone?

Boooooot · 02/02/2023 21:02

Sounds like she’s done something to her phone. Message her partner.

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Safarigiraffe · 02/02/2023 21:04

Boooooot · 02/02/2023 21:02

Sounds like she’s done something to her phone. Message her partner.

I don’t have her partners number

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Safarigiraffe · 02/02/2023 21:05

Prob wait to Tom see if she gets back to me as we are meeting up Sunday

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GinClassHeroes · 02/02/2023 21:05

I’d be concerned about friend rather than jumping to them blocking you. Especially given that they have recently moved in with new partner.

Cantthinkofausername487 · 02/02/2023 21:26

Try calling on private number instead. If the phone goes to voicemail when you call from your number, but rings when on private number you will know you’re blocked. If it also goes to voicemail when you call on private number you are not blocked, the phone is just off/no signal!

ILoveYouMoreTheEnd · 02/02/2023 21:46

Try contacting her from someone else's phone or a landlines?

Bankofrave · 03/02/2023 13:55

Have you solved the mystery yet OP?

PinkyFlamingo · 03/02/2023 14:01

Hope you've managed to contact your friend.

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Safarigiraffe · 03/02/2023 17:46

Hi yes my friend got in contact with me to say she got mugged of her phone 😢
I feel so bad for even thinking she blocked me 😔

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