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To think the current policy towards ID/(just) under 18s in pubs is a bit silly

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Misscherrypie1 · 02/02/2023 16:39

DS is 17 (18 in July) and in his final year of sixth form. His friends are all starting to go out to pubs and clubs and the such like and he can’t go as still underage. Pubs now scan and inspect IDs to within an inch of their life and there are ridiculously heavy fines and penalties enforcing the system. While I understand the need to protect young children from alcoholism surely that level of resource and policing being devoted towards preventing 16/17 year olds going for a pint is just a bit silly - especially if they’re young in the year group and all their friends are basically the same as them in terms of maturity etc. I just don’t see how on earth it’s a proportionate response to saddle hospitality businesses with tens of thousands in fines or even loss of licences (especially if a fake ID is used and they looked 18 with no conceivable way of knowing). I remember I drank in pubs before my 18th birthday. Aibu to think the current policy is utterly silly and overkill?

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Comefromaway · 02/02/2023 17:57

sparepantsandtoothbrush · 02/02/2023 17:54

His friends are all starting to go out to pubs and clubs and the such like and he can’t go as still underage

Of course he can go to the pub. He just can't drink alcohol yet

You can’t go in Spoons after 10pm if you are under 18 but he can go into most other places.

BloodAndFire · 02/02/2023 18:02

Headstones250 · 02/02/2023 16:56

I have a 17 year old July baby too. She's really feeling isolated as all her friends are already 18 and a lot of the impromptu socialising goes on without her. Our local Wetherspoons is very strict.
I agree that it would be fairer to have one date in the year that everyone from the cohort could go pubbing. Even if that was 1st Sept of the following year. No schoolchildren should be drinking in pubs in my view.

You think that someone born in September should have to wait until a few days before their 19th birthday (by which time they might have been working for years) to buy a drink so that your daughter doesn't feel left out?!

mogsrus · 02/02/2023 18:29

its like where I work (arcade)anyone who tries to play a machine in the 18 area without I D is asked to leave. If they succeed in playing I have to stop them, refund there stake only & keep any banked winnings, then fill out paperwork etc, without these measures in place, I can loose my job & get a criminal record, it’s not worth bending rules

DisappearingGirl · 02/02/2023 18:52

I can obviously see why it has to be 18 for everyone but I really feel for sixth formers (or Scottish uni students?) who are summer born! Feels so unfair that they're ostracised from going to pubs/clubs with their mates till sixth form has finished. One of mine will be in that boat and she won't be happy! She already wants to be a teenager aged 8!

Johnnysgirl · 02/02/2023 18:55

DisappearingGirl · 02/02/2023 18:52

I can obviously see why it has to be 18 for everyone but I really feel for sixth formers (or Scottish uni students?) who are summer born! Feels so unfair that they're ostracised from going to pubs/clubs with their mates till sixth form has finished. One of mine will be in that boat and she won't be happy! She already wants to be a teenager aged 8!

Ostracised... 😂
They can't drink til they're 18, in common with the rest of humanity.
Or at least, those residing in the British Isles...
Why get so bloody dramatic about it?

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