My son has a best friend at school they get into occasional spats and tend to shove each other sometimes playing football etc I do deal with these things with him. He comes home with brusies on shins where he has been slide tackled playing football.....all a total non cause for concern all normal play. I get a regular message from best friends mum with a picture of bruises that my son has allegedly caused.
I just ignore them and keep saying nothing and saying if there is a problem teachers will deal with it!
She waits to pounce to discuss the pictures with me at the gate and I breeze on by but she is starting to piss me off. She is putting them on the class WhatsApp and asking if I want a play date so that she can give me advice on parenting. I want to stay on the WhatsApp group but not sure how to deal with her. I won't tell her just to fuck off that is not my style but not sure how to deal with it. I don't want to receive pictures of her child's bruised shin by any means nor do I want to speak about it. Its a total none issue to me and I don't send her pictures of my son's brushed shins.... they play football with about six other boys and girls so it could be any of them.