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To contact the school over this?

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Username721 · 26/01/2023 19:31

Not sure if I’m being a bit much!

We were eating dinner earlier and one of my DSC mentioned that they were worried about their friend at school.

Apparently this friend takes a packed lunch and every day this week, has just binned their entire lunch. The most they’ve eaten is one single bite of a sandwich before wrapping it back up and throwing it away. My DSC tells me that when it was pointed out to the child that they should eat their lunch (by another child), the kid reacted angrily, swore at them and walked off.

I checked and it seems the boy doesn’t eat at snack time either, so is apparently having no food all day.

I was really taken aback by my DSC comment about worrying; it’s not like them at all. Usually their only worries relate to Fortnite.

Should I just keep out of it? Email the school and tell them what I was told?

I don’t want to be that parent, equally if it were my child I’d want to know.

OP posts:
madnessitellyou · 26/01/2023 20:49

Let school know.

I'm a teacher. If I saw that happening in my school I absolutely would be regarding it as a potential issue. Indeed, dd told me something her friend had told her and I told school on the grounds that had I heard that about one of my pupils I'd have been reporting to the Safeguarding Lead ASAP.

namechangeforthisbleep · 26/01/2023 20:50

freez · 26/01/2023 19:51

I used to chuck my dinner in the hedge on the way home. I cringe now at the waste and also I didn't even take the clingfilm off. I hated sandwiches and still do.

No eating disorder here but I'd still let school know.

I did this too and my mate bought me chips. I hated what my mum made me

templesit · 26/01/2023 22:22

freez · 26/01/2023 19:44

I think always sharing this sort of info with the school is best. You don't know what the school already knows. Your info might be a missing puzzle piece or the straw that breaks the camels back and forces some action on their part.

A quick phonecall to the safeguarding person is all it takes.

Agree

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