I live with my partner one year now. We had broken up for ten years because of his alcoholism and I thought he had "learnt his lesson". We reconciled and have been living with him last one year. I pay the bills in the house. He only got a job in one month ago which doesn't contribute much to the upkeep needed for the hose. I have two daughters, 17 and 10. The older one is his biological daughter who just finished high school. My problem is that he has peed on the bed or on himself about four times since we started living together. On christmas night we had visitors at our house and he got drunk . I knew he was badly wasted so I went to seep in my DS room. In the morning I go into the bedroom and find that he had wet the bed and had tried to cover it up so I dont find out. Told him he had better get his shit together and get help for his alcoholism by end on January this year or we are done. Two weeks later he goes our again and gets drunk, and comes home staggering and bloody. He says he fell somewhere. I was not at home but my two daughters were home. When I came back (from a meeting) about 7.00pm I found him in the bed with the dirty clothes and blood stains by the bedroom door. I was furious and thought about my poor daughters having to witness him getting into the house drunk and bloody. Since then I have been sleeping in my DS bedroom. I just want to move out. I have not spoken a word to him since this incident. He keeps trying to talk to me about stuff, but I keep ignoring him, and am wondering why he doesn't see how bad his actions are. There are five days until end of January by which time I had told him to get help or we would be over. Honestly I don't think he realizes am serious. I just want to leave, but I dont want to rush anything. I can't tell him to leave coz he will try to come to the house and I dont want that kind of experience or expose my daughters to any possible insecurity Am i being unreasonable to leave?