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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To not send my children to school on the strike days?

191 replies

mumoffourminimes · 25/01/2023 21:55

(Primary) school have said they will open on the strike days with TAs in classrooms instead of teachers and they will not be covering the national curriculum (fair enough). But do I have to send the children in under these circumstances?

Is it even safe to have a school full of children and half the number of adults?

I'm especially thinking of the younger years, unfortunately there have been some violent incidents in both yr1 and reception classes and there are some kids that really need the supervision.

I don't want to send my children in for babysitting services, i'm at home on maternity leave so I don't need that, lucky I know. So AIBU not to send them?

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MuggleMe · 25/01/2023 22:02

Absolutely don't send them, I'm sure they'll appreciate the lower ratios.

ACynicalDad · 25/01/2023 22:02

They would probably be (secretly) grateful if you didn't send them. I'm not sure using TA's to cover striking teachers is legal unless they are cover supervisors, so that might change anyway.

SirSamVimesCityWatch · 25/01/2023 22:04

Do you know how many classes are likely to be affected? Only one of the teaching unions is striking, so it's not going to be all teachers off. You might end up keeping your DC off when they have a totally normal day.

Busybody2022 · 25/01/2023 22:04

If kids who have TAs are loosing them to cover the class then really no one will be learning a single thing.

Pinkflipflop85 · 25/01/2023 22:04

I wouldn't send them because (in ny opinion) TAs should not be being asked to cover classes in this situation. I wish they could refuse to do it as it is grossly unfair on them.

Pinkflipflop85 · 25/01/2023 22:05

SirSamVimesCityWatch · 25/01/2023 22:04

Do you know how many classes are likely to be affected? Only one of the teaching unions is striking, so it's not going to be all teachers off. You might end up keeping your DC off when they have a totally normal day.

Depends on the school though.

We are 2 form entry and every single teacher is NEU and striking.

mumoffourminimes · 25/01/2023 22:06

If it's relevant, I do support the strikes and I think it's a bad idea to ask TAs to do this.

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Wolfout · 25/01/2023 22:06

Our school have said that staff who do go in to work should NOT be covering the duties of striking staff so that doesn’t seem right.

mumoffourminimes · 25/01/2023 22:06

It's a single form entry school. No idea how many will strike. HT seems not to know either.

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mumoffourminimes · 25/01/2023 22:07

Wolfout · 25/01/2023 22:06

Our school have said that staff who do go in to work should NOT be covering the duties of striking staff so that doesn’t seem right.

Doesn't seem safe either

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MadameSzyszkoBohusz · 25/01/2023 22:07

I won't send my children under those circumstances because to me it's akin to being a scab.

CrackersCheeseAndWinePlease · 25/01/2023 22:09

My DD's primary school only have 3 year groups open on strike days due to staffing. They have enough TA's but not enough teachers

mumoffourminimes · 25/01/2023 22:09

MadameSzyszkoBohusz · 25/01/2023 22:07

I won't send my children under those circumstances because to me it's akin to being a scab.

Okay 🤣

So I'm not going to be calling anyone who does send their children (some just absolutely need to) "a scab"

It's not the 80s

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Quornflakegirl · 25/01/2023 22:10

Ours is a small one form entry school and head as said it’s open as normal. Only 7 teaching staff so I am guessing they’re not striking.

MadameSzyszkoBohusz · 25/01/2023 22:11

Fair enough, I was taking about how I felt about it.

The past 4 generations of my family have been trade unionists, so I accept my position is a little different.

DonnaBanana · 25/01/2023 22:11

Beware that register will still be taken so if you’re in an area that fines automatically on absence you might be dealing with that

DoesItMakeYouFeelBetter · 25/01/2023 22:12

We have had no notice yet from my DC’s school about wether they are closed or not. Even if they are open, he won’t be going in. I am a teacher, and I will be striking. I’m order to support the staff in DC’s school who are striking, he won’t be going in. Even if they try to stay open for exam years only, he won’t be going in. He is year 11.

mumoffourminimes · 25/01/2023 22:12

DonnaBanana · 25/01/2023 22:11

Beware that register will still be taken so if you’re in an area that fines automatically on absence you might be dealing with that

They don't have a history of fining, but this is what I want to check really. It'll be unauthorised absence do you think?

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SomeCommonThing · 25/01/2023 22:14

Very much depends on the school surely?
DS school is partially closed, only the children whose teachers are not striking will be attending school, and a provision made for the children classed as vulnerable.
DS will be off because his teacher is on strike.
All pupils whose teachers will be at work are expected to attend school as normal otherwise be marked as absent.

CLLock · 25/01/2023 22:15

I wouldn't send them. I'd also send a strongly worded email to the head letting them know why you're not sending them.

Saying this as a parent and a teacher.

Wolfout · 25/01/2023 22:24

SomeCommonThing · 25/01/2023 22:14

Very much depends on the school surely?
DS school is partially closed, only the children whose teachers are not striking will be attending school, and a provision made for the children classed as vulnerable.
DS will be off because his teacher is on strike.
All pupils whose teachers will be at work are expected to attend school as normal otherwise be marked as absent.

But how does the school know which teachers are or are not striking? I thought that the school isn’t allowed to ask them?

Busybody2022 · 25/01/2023 22:25

Wolfout · 25/01/2023 22:24

But how does the school know which teachers are or are not striking? I thought that the school isn’t allowed to ask them?

They can ask. They don't have to be told though

YetMoreNewBeginnings · 25/01/2023 22:32

We’re not sending ours. The two schools have said that they’ll have TAs and other staff covering, but they will essentially be only providing a safe space for the day. They’ve asked people to follow the essential/key workers guidance as much as possible, and also anyone who has important hospital appointments or the likes. They’ve said they won’t all be in their usual classrooms as ratios will mean some juggling.

They’ve also asked to let them know if you’re not sending them for numbers.

Tinkeytonkoldfruit · 25/01/2023 22:33

My DD7 is no scab! 😁 She won't be crossing the picket line if the teachers are striking. I am not a teacher but I support their right to strike and don't appreciate efforts to undermine this with use of TAs.

reachforthebloodymary · 25/01/2023 22:35

Looking at the replies. I am guessing it varies on the schools, but our school has sent out this evening a list of classes that will be closed, but have warned that others might close