A bit of background, we have been having a few issues for the last few years and trying to get into a better position in our relationship. Just started the Fair Play book too.
So one of our issues is Dh being able to get up in the morning to take the kids to school, generally drops them off at breakfast club then drives into work. He rarely gets up on his own, either I wake him by yelling up the stairs it’s time to go (because I’ve gotten up with the kids to get them ready for him just to go) or the kids wake him. This morning I was heading up to the shops so dropping the big kids off then dropping him off up at the station. He never got up, so we just left (I may or may not have slammed the door on the way out) he messaged me this afternoon not even acknowledging this morning.
The other thing I have a massive issue with and this is where I need you all to tell me if I’m in the right or wrong! So dh doesn’t believe I’ve done something unless he’s seen/heard me do it, he automatically says I’m lying. For example getting up in the night for the toddler. According to him starting off saying I’m lying about it is the logical way to work to maybe believing me that the toddler was up during the night. I said it wasn’t a good way to do it and would rather her worked through that but himself without mentioning it!
This is longer than I thought and there’s still more. Words of wisdom?