Sick of lazy men

[mummatoonexxo]

I got to be honest I'm getting sick and tired of my lazy ass partner. Can't keep a job down for shit, stays up until 4/5 am sleeps in until 1/2pm lives his life for his benefit and only him, speaks to me like shit and judges how I look after OUR child. I'm the one that wakes up with my son and puts him to bed, I feed him, I bath him, I'm the one he comes to for love it really fucks me off. If I wasn't so afraid of being alone I would have left ages ago. I feel trapped! Sorry guys just need to offload I moved 7 hours away from my whole family to live with him and his family and I regret it deeply😑

Leave him.

You seem deeply unhappy. He's unlikely to change so leave.

Leave him and move back. He’s never going to change. Life is short.

I feel guilty for taking my son 7 hours away from him, I don't know if I'm prepared for the amount of trouble that would create for myself

He sounds spectacularly useless.

Well, as he's not parenting anyway, I am not sure your child will suffer at all. Leave him, go back to your family and start a new fabulous life.

Move back but don’t tell him you’re going if possible.

What’s the house situation? Rent, mortgage?

You say you're frightened of being alone but to be honest, for all intents and purposes, you already are.

Leave. Get out now. And don't worry about the 7 hour distance, it doesn't sound like he is planning on being any kind of a father, just sponging off you.

Your child will be better off without him.