I came home to find DH pulled the oven out to put a new worktop in. Great. Only been waiting a year so was quite surprised to see it like that . Anyway, he noticed that the oven's wiring housing was cracked and decided to replace it. He bought an isolator switch instead of the one that's just a faceplate, and he connected it up. He said about pushing the oven back into place and I said "shall I just try first to see if the ovens are working?" Thinking that if they weren't, he would have to pull it back out and work on it again and he'd be annoyed he hadn't checked first. He said no, don't check. I said "it's only because if they don't work, you don't have to pull it back out again to find the problem." He said "I can sort that out later if it's a problem." I just must have had a look on my face that said I couldn't fathom his reasoning, because he said "fine, whatever. Check them!" I did.
They don't work. I told him as much. He straight away checked the ignition for the gas hob and said "it does work. It's fine." I said "but the ovens. The electric ovens. They don't work. None of them do." He then unleashed an absolute barrage at me about how I've taken over, I've thrown him off completely, he won't do a single thing now until I tell him what I want doing because I need to control everything and now he has to think about me saying "you've broken my fucking ovens."
I didn't say that. At all. I said "they don't work."
I reminded him I didn't say that and he said I implied it by pointing out they didn't work. I asked him why he was being so horrid to me, and he said he wasn't, then said "leave me alone!! Or I won't do anything!!"
Aibu to check the ovens that I need to use in less than an hour, say they're not working and then point out that I didn't say my husband had broken them?