Would you allow your child out of school for a wedding?

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My sister has just given us her wedding date which is on a Monday.
I'll of course be attending however my son will be in school.

Would you think it's unacceptable to keep him off school to attend? It's about an hour and a half away so I can't really nip out after the wedding to get him and bring him back.

I asked his dad (we are no longer together) and he said no, I'm being unreasonable.

YABU- kids shouldn't miss school for an aunties wedding

YANBU - he should attend

It depends, first if they wanted to go then other things after that ie exam that day or whatever

If child was not really bothered then no way

Of course it's ok! He's 7 and it's a close family member's wedding. Just inform the school and don't think any more of it. I started reading this thinking maybe he was about to sit his GCSEs!

My sisters wedding is during sats and school have authorised even though they don't approve any absence requests during assessment periods.

I think it is the sort of thing that makes a child feel really special and excited (usually) so yes from me.

I teach and would have no issue with his absence from school. None of the teachers I work with would either. You wouldn't be receiving a fine here either - they only kick in on day 5 of unauthorised in our LA.

Yup we took our DD out of school to attend our (mine and her dad's) wedding. Totally fine.

Totally agree with this

Assuming it’s not year 2 SATS week, yes I would take him out.

I’d take him out of school for the day, but also be really disappointed that I’d have to leave early to get him to bed at a decent time for school the next day.

Why would you want to when you have a day of free childcare and he will be happier in school than watching a ceremony and being shhed and stand9ng around for pictures. Collect him for the after school but if he is older.

Is it possible that your sister may have booked a monday to gently steer people away from bringing kids without having to declare it child-free? Like she will let nephew come if you arrange it but might be hoping you dont?

Don't think there's anything wrong with pulling him out of school but I do have issue with people who book weddings on a week day... It may be cheaper for them but it's a colossal inconvenience for a lot of guests. I'm having to use x 2 days a/l later on this year to attend a close friends wedding and to be honest I resent it. Rest of the fam aren't coming due to cost and teenage DC not wanting to miss x 2 days of school. Bride is upset they aren't coming but it's tough.

Of course he should attend his aunts wedding. No brainer.

Yes because year 2 SATS are really important 🤔🤣

He should not miss his Aunt's wedding.
He is old enough to remember it and old enough to enjoy the whole family festivity.

Yeah right, her sister should def pay double and make sure it's a Sunday so dn can attend. It's his day after all. Ffs!

YANBU He should definitely take the day off to attend the wedding. 🎉

I agree.

I've never taken DD out of school for family holidays - but would have no hesitation in doing so for her Aunt's wedding.

It makes a different to which level school push your child to achieve in year 6 stats and year 6 stats are used to create minimum grades students are expected to achieve at GCSE age.

I’m always amazed by the apathetic nature of many parents in UK towards education.

Do take him.

YANBU. This would usually be seen as a good enough reason to take one day off school.

At 7, yes absolutely. As per pp I wouldn't if it was a more important school year.

Yes of course!

I took my 12 year old to his aunts wedding 3 weeks ago, school, however, denied my request for term time leave. I still took him though.

Of course he should attend his Aunty's wedding