Is it me?

[Guilly]

Reasons I want out No emotional support I’m ‘on a list’ of people he fancies Angry outbursts constantly Calling the kids ‘dunces, idiots, cunts etc’ Lying and secretive ‘Switching off’ when I talk about anything other than him Stepdad was given two weeks to live and James said ‘oh’ and carried on ranting about his day Messaging my friend and hiding it- when she told me, he deleted half the conversation When I offered to help in his new business it was ‘no you can’t’ or ‘we’d annoy each other’ Repeatedly tells other people things I’ve said in confidence Screaming at kids for 30 minutes if they spill a drink until they are sobbing Sex has no passion or love-purely mechanical Acts like a teenage/toddler-arrested development? Repeats opinions without own research to come across as ‘knowledgeable’ Knows everything about everything even if he doesn’t

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Sorry just wanted feedback

Why is your whole OP a clickable link?

The post is hard to understand.

You don't need a justification to leave your partner - you can just decide to leave.

For his verbal and emotional abuse to the children alone should be enough reason for you to leave. Why on earth are you not putting their happiness first?

If you need to hear this, these are plenty of reasons to leave and never allow this person back in your life. Please get out of this mess- he sounds horrific

Hi OP. Of course you should get out. He sounds absolutely horrible and how he treats the kids is not acceptable. That is going to damage them.

Either get out yourself, or if it's your place, kick him out, but please don't be another woman who stays with a complete asshole!

I got to the calling the kids and didn’t read further.

Theres only one coke see you next Tuesday and it’s him.

Get rid before he does more emotional damage.