Ok, before anyone jumps and calls me a troll, I’m NOT, I’m an established poster who has changed their username. Also even though this is sex related, I’m not going to go into graphical details obviously as it’s not appropriate and not entirely relevent.
basically, during sex recently I’ve been having a lot of abdominal pain. I googled it and it fits the description of Dysorgasmia. Its usually located below my belly button and usually to the left hand side, or centre left. It’s like I’m being stabbed by an ice pick or a knife, it’s not a general pain across the area, it’s very sharp and painful and takes a few minutes (sometimes longer) to ease off. At first it was uncomfortable but tolerable but now when it’s happening I’m doubling over in pain
i hadn’t had sex before until relatively recently so my experience with what’s normal and isn’t normal is somewhat limited! and I’ve never had sex so close to my period being due (it’s due in a few days) so I wasn’t sure if that had affected it, but I haven’t had cramps any other time and I don’t usually get painful cramps anyway? This problem has only really started a week or so ago and is getting worse each time it happens.
When I googled it, it said it usually resolves itself and is often harmless, but it’s getting worse each time and im in so much pain when it happens, it’s honestly like im being stabbed with a knife. But I know things like trapped wind can cause agonising stomach pain but I feel like that wouldn’t be specific to this exact situation and the pain would be more frequent? I just remember being taught that pain during sex should be kept an eye on (I don’t remember what for though!) but I think that is more for vaginal pain rather than abdominal?
sorry I’m ranting a bit now, I’m not asking for personal stories or experiences but just if anyone had any ideas or advice to stop it it would be appreciated!