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FantasyHoliday · 17/01/2023 12:26

We have 2 children age 1 and 6
Desperate to have a holiday this year, fairly limited budget but not overly tight.
My wife refuses to fly abroad or ferry etc as she says it's too much hassle with the 1 year old which I can understand.
I refuse to do anymore 'caravan" holidays like sun holidays as I feel we've done too many of them and since covid the cleanliness and amenities are generally very poor.

Is there a compromise? Centre parcs seems ridiculously expensive and we're not into camping. My son loves a premier inn/travelodge but as a couple it's boring sitting there in the same room in the evenings when the kids are asleep.

Please give us some inspiration 🙏 we are based in the South of England. . Thanks.

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ConcussedPigeon · 17/01/2023 13:38

How about family friendly hotels? We’ve stayed at the Sands Hotel & Resort in Cornwall - lots of activities and nice for adults too. Or Bedruthan Steps, which is similar but fancier?

JoyousAsOtters · 17/01/2023 13:39

Another vote for a cottage in either Pembrokeshire or Dorset. Or if you can stretch to Cornwall this place is great: broomhillmanor.co.uk

Thatsshallot1967 · 17/01/2023 13:40

Your wife doesn't want to "fly" or do "ferry" so in my mind you haven't ruled out abroad. In the south of England you're well placed for the tunnel to one of the European Centerparcs. Do the DC travel ok in the car? They are massively cheaper than UK and as much fun. We are about to book.

Milkand2sugarsplease · 17/01/2023 13:42

We've just done a couple of nights in the lodges at Alton Towers? Seemed a better set up than a single hotel room as there's a separate sleeping area for the children.

Also booked a quirky hot tub place for the summer which also has separate rooms.

Our summer holiday is on a working farm in a converted outbuilding. Can spend time on the farm helping out or go out for days when we want.

TrodOnLegoAgain · 17/01/2023 13:42

Sorry, posted too soon. Wanted to save that I would save Eurodisney until your children are a bit bigger, if it's going to be a one-off splurge. They'd both get a lot out of it at 10 and 5.

OverTheHillAndDownTotherSide · 17/01/2023 13:47

JoyousAsOtters · 17/01/2023 13:39

Another vote for a cottage in either Pembrokeshire or Dorset. Or if you can stretch to Cornwall this place is great: broomhillmanor.co.uk

It’s 2 hours to Pembs from me and I’m already in Wales. The OP won’t get there in 3 hours. Same for Cornwall.

OnceAgainWithFeeling · 17/01/2023 13:50

OP, can you give clear parameters?

no flight
no ferry
not more than 3 hours in car? (From where?!)
do you want beaches or pools?
places to go on day trips?
hotel or self catering?
how long for, and rough budget?

we don’t stand a chance otherwise.

lemondrizzl · 17/01/2023 13:54

Noticed adhd in one of your posts. This place has nd specialism / and is really lovely
Close to fabulous beaches too

higherlankfarm.co.uk

FantasyHoliday · 17/01/2023 13:56

OnceAgainWithFeeling · 17/01/2023 13:50

OP, can you give clear parameters?

no flight
no ferry
not more than 3 hours in car? (From where?!)
do you want beaches or pools?
places to go on day trips?
hotel or self catering?
how long for, and rough budget?

we don’t stand a chance otherwise.

Thanks we're in West Sussex
We can do 3 hours in a car - night in a travelodge etc then continue our journey or leave to start the journey at bedtime and then the eldest is OK.

Looking at going for a week, open to beaches or pools etc - open minded in general on places to stay so all suggestions are welcome. Probably max £1500 ish in school summer holidays.

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JoBrodie · 17/01/2023 13:56

How about an overnight train trip? They combine travel and hotel in one and there are two overnight trains in the UK (Paddington to Penzance and Euston to Scotland (Edin or Glasgow, or the highlands)). They don't run on Saturday evenings though. They are well suited for families with kids, though not particularly spacious. Note that the trains set off late in the evening which could either be delightfully exciting for your kids or a nightmare for you. You could stay a whole day somewhere and return on the overnight train the following night, or just get on the first train back after arrival, perhaps visiting some other places along the route if that's not too expensive.

Have a look at The Man In Seat 61's website which has information about train travel around the world (also ferries though you've said you're not keen on that): www.seat61.com/

With kids that young you could probably do quite a lof of pretending that you're on holiday without actually leaving the house. Sort of Advanced Staycations I suppose. There are a few examples of families inventing their own during lockdown, such as this Austrlian family that recreated a 15 hour flight to Munich in their living room, complete with boarding passes, security checks, microwaved TV dinners etc. On 'arrival' they changed to German cuisine and used virtual museum tours to visit various European sites of interest (Google Streetview is also fun for exploring a new city online) www.theguardian.com/australia-news/2020/apr/16/coronavirus-vacation-australian-family-recreate-15-hour-holiday-flight-in-living-room, another example here www.birminghammail.co.uk/news/uk-news/watch-family-whose-holiday-jeopardy-18133471 (just google 'family recreate holiday lockdown' or similar on Google for more).

Maybe your 6yo can recreate some famous paintings or landmarks for the Family Holiday photo album. Insist on using a few words from the relevant language (might as well learn something while doing this!).

As your alternative holiday plans gradually become a little more fluid you might go down the route of the frankly bonkers Experimental Travel which is where you do things like holiday at your nearest airport (or service station, Gloucester Services is really lovely), or even Ikea. My favourite is the Expedition to K2, where you get a large map of your chosen area, find whatever is in the grid reference for K2 and go and visit it, planning your route to take account of other items of local interest :)

www.latourex.org/latourex_en.html

You've said you're not keen on a ferry to go somewhere but have you thought about a short family-friendly cruise where you're ON a boat all the time and the journey IS the holiday? I am not sure what the current recommendations are (Covid) and how expensive things currently are, but it might reduce some of the travel-stress feeling because you're not constantly having to think about needing to repack and leave. Many cruises visit different cities so you can leave all your belongings on the ferry and explore at leisure. This is generally quite a bit more expensive than a Holiday Inn trip of course.

Good luck, and bonne vacances! :)

Jo

Workawayxx · 17/01/2023 13:57

When DS was about 4 I think, we drove to northern France (channel tunnel so very easy) and stayed in a little holiday village that had an indoor and outdoor pool. It was also not far from the beach. I can't remember where exactly it was and it was my Dad who booked it but think it was reasonably price and might be worth looking into that sort of option. DS wasn't a great traveller and was fine with it all. You could also do a premier in stay near the channel tunnel port. if you aren't near.

We also had a lovely stay in a nice apartment near sandbanks beach when DS was 18 months. Quite expensive but worth it as we spent a lot of time in the apartment due to DS (evenings) and lots of nice local day trips and walking distance to gorgeous beach.

moose62 · 17/01/2023 13:58

We stayed at an airb&b at Penycae Oak Lodge in Powys. It was a great cottage with BBQ, hot tub and private garden. It was next to an award winning pub with a small children's zoo. Lovely village with loads to do nearby and good walks, steam train etc

Krakenes · 17/01/2023 13:59

Eurotunnel is so easy, drive in and you’re in France in 30mins. Lots of options for gites with a pool, woodland holidays, beaches. All cheap and self catering.

Sewannoying · 17/01/2023 14:05

PregnantandPissedoff · 17/01/2023 12:40

Eurotunnel Disneyland Paris.
Straight there. Minimal faff. Disney hotels are great. 6 year old will absolutely lose their shit and the 1 year old will just enjoy the characters!

From Summer this year Eurostar are stopping doing direct travel to Disneyland.

I would suggest Butlins given those ages. We’ve always had the best time.

AlisonDonut · 17/01/2023 14:13

open to beaches or pools etc

it would ruin the holiday fielding a toddling baby and a 6 year old near a swimming pool or on a beach

Mate.

NoseyNellie · 17/01/2023 14:18

Sykescottages.co.uk, stayed in Swanage (no point giving specific house details as there were 12 of us!) but lovely little seaside town, beach, amusements, usual stuff with the plus of a steam train line that takes you to Corfe Castle - recommend both the castle and the model village

PumpkinSoup21 · 17/01/2023 14:21

South Devon coast. I know you said you don’t like Airbnb but there’s some family-friendly gems on there for £100/night in the first week of August. Some have late check in (after 4 o’clock) but we tend to set off early then stop somewhere nearby for lunch and exploring then drive on late afternoon. Seems to work fine.

Look at this for example:
www.airbnb.co.uk/rooms/4163834?adults=2&children=1&infants=1&location=United%20Kingdom&check_in=2023-07-28&check_out=2023-08-04&source_impression_id=p3_1673965151_bO7y3AZCkb2LXqs2

IcakethereforeIam · 17/01/2023 14:21

Dorset is lovely, there was a dinosaur/fossil museum near Kimmeridge beach (great for rock pooling), I hope it survived covid.

Milkand2sugarsplease · 17/01/2023 14:24

Just looked at a week away in the summer hols on the forest holidays website. Coming in between 2100 and 2500 with one option of 3500. Not quite in the realms of "reasonable" imo.

ApocalypseNowt · 17/01/2023 14:25

Go to Butlins. The kids love it and day drinking is acceptable Grin

We've been to the one at Minehead for the past few years. It's very reasonable price wise with lots included.

MaggieMagpie357 · 17/01/2023 14:26

Isle of Wight is fab for families. Hoseasons have some lovely lodges in woodland next to the beach (with or without hot tubs) or try Away Resorts for some cool cabins. We go most years even though we have teens now and they still love IoW

MaggieMagpie357 · 17/01/2023 14:28

Sorry OP just seen your comment about IoW. We've found it much cheaper in May or Oct half terms and still had decent weather to get out and about.

AtomicRitual · 17/01/2023 14:28

Forest Holidays are really good and I've heard good things about Potters Resort in Norfolk. Like a very up class Butlins/Haven, which is all inclusive.

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