How do people who don’t want or like sex, or are asexual, date?

[AceNotInSpace]

Serious question.

I live in a small country, also not very tech-savvy, but I haven’t veen able to find any place I could try and find a partner.
’Normal’ apps / online, nevermind real life doesn’t work, even if I’m honest from the beginning - they either don’t believe me / think they can change me or shout abuse at me.

It’s really starting to get me and it’s getting harder and harder to keep believing that live even exist ⬅️ That’s me being dramatic right now, I’m just really low today.

So, I’d just like to know if anyone knows anyone or is someone who managed to find love, and sex isin’t demanded.

This is something I would encourage any woman to consider. I once thought I didn't like sex - turns out I simply didn't like it with men.

Well, there is just no interest towards anyone in that way.

That’s fine!

so how have you found it browsing or talking to people on asexual apps and networks @AceNotInSpace ?

Genuine question.

Of course you known yourself best, I just wanted to offer my experience of when I thought I didn't want/like/desire sex.

For the people wondering my kid is a-sexual and a-romantic. They have no interest in a relationship of any sort and are happy with their friendships

I suspect there are more people out there like this than we realise. I can think of two people in their late 30s and have never had sex (so far as I know - they’ve definitely never had a serious relationship). I’m not sure whether they are asexual (probably not), but I suspect they both have low sex drives. Weirdly, I think quite a lot of people are going off sex. Men are channeling their sexual energy into porn, and women don’t want to be distracted from their careers.

I'm primarily not interested in sex.