The Christian dating? Oh, because an atheist would be fine with finding a load of dirty stuff about you online?
@SpanishSalsaing I used to be into occultism and some of the stuff references that and goes on about evil stuff we've supposedly done (we haven't) as part of occult rituals. So yes, I can assure you that a lot of Christians will be more bothered about that side of it than the average person, and also more likely to fall for it due to their assumptions about the occult.
Also, that is bad luck for 2 exs to do it. For most people, zero exs do it. What are the odds of that?
So for instance if a woman's had a couple of abusive relationships, I like to think you wouldn't think that was somehow due to something she's done. Shit happens. Nowadays there's more use of the internet, so it's more likely than it would've been to happen as part of abusive relationships or stalking.
Finally, purely out of interest, what websites is this sort of stuff posted on? Does it come up high on Google? Does it?
When I had the first bloke do it on one site, it came up on the first page of google for my real name. So if this shady bloke knew my full name, it could well come up for that too. And it mentions the city I live in, so it'd be clearer it refers to me rather than someone else with my name.Either way, I don't want to risk that happening. The first incident and how prominent it was on searches was very distressing.
If you're not the main target, then who is?
Other people. Obviously I wouldn't want to go into that much detail on here or he would use this as part of what he's doing.
He doesn't sound like any Christian I know. The ones I know who are Christian are normally kind people.
He's not a Christian. I'm into Christianity now but wasn't until about the last year.