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School want gp note every time dc off??

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Ohtheyresickagain · 11/01/2023 10:56

Dc appears to have caught every one of the bugs going round since October. It’s been an absolute nightmare on so many levels (them suffering, missing family activities, impact on our work etc etc) that it’s honestly brought me to my knees.

We were presented with an attendance warning letter on their last day of school before Xmas. Lovely way to start the holidays. I know I’m sensitive because of how hard it’s been but it actually made me cry- mostly with frustration. The wording (I’m assuming a standard template?) was incredibly cold and basically said they are ill too often (you don’t chuffing say!) and therefore any time they’re off this year they’ll require a gp note.

Thing is, they’ve only been off for the time they have because of following school policy, which is usual I think - not allowed in with a temperature, or for 48 hours after vomiting. We’ve abided by this and are now being ‘told off’. In the weekly school newsletter they commented on how badly the country has been hit by illnesses this winter as it’s first proper winter free of restrictions since covid etc but some parents have been sending kids in ill and please don’t do that. Gahhhh

anyway. I have no intention of phoning the gp for a sick note for my child every time they have a temp or have vomited. Insane use of the nhs imo. I’m not being unreasonable with this surely?

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BettyBoops · 12/01/2023 22:03

We've just had the same thing (although without the ridiculous notion of a gp note)
A letter saying attendance too low (around 91%) and attendance will be monitored.
DD has had two illnesses, fever - 2 days off, sickness bug - 4 days which included the required 48hours clear!
I was very tempted to write a snooty letter to the head stating that as primary educators ourselves we were very aware of the impact on learning caused by absence therefore we will be happy to send DD in vomit and all, it will save me the stress of sorting emergency childcare out 😬😂

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