Trigger warning
ive always worked but about 9 years ago,I was raped by someone I classed as a friend
I managed to get away and walked into a nervous breakdown-my children ended up staying with friends (my family are narcissistic and thought it was funny)
I also lost my job
fresh out of the hospital,I had to claim benefits as I needed to pay rent and eat
the work adviser was a cunt-he seemed to hate everyone
he was also fully aware to my reasons for claiming
didnt stop him screaming ‘so!your kids are in the care of social services?!’ (They had social services in our lives but nothing I’d done wrong) at the top of his lungs
and telling me (again,at the top of his lungs) that I should have been ‘a better mother and stayed away from teasing men’-again,everyone in that building heard him-in fact,I know people waiting outside heard him
the following week,he screamed again that I hadn’t ‘looked for work on the Friday,or the Sunday-do you not want the money?’
I was barley standing at that point,let alone walking round looking for full time work
he knew why I’d lost my job-and the reasons why-he enjoyed the power
i ended up on esa for six weeks and found another job,which was way too early-I wasn’t coping but I refused to see him ever again
hes known for it apparently