I have worked for the same person/company for over 25 years. When I started I was asked if I would be self employed - I wasn't very keen but at the time I was very keen to do the job. It was during the recession in the 1990's.
Over the years I have done a mixture of full and part time - due to having children. I am now divorced and although my kids are older - I have one woking and one at Uni - I am the parent who does everything for them financially.
As my job is quite physical - it is getting harder as I get older and I am now in my 50's.
I love my job BUT I don't get paid very well - he sets the amount that I get paid per hour, what I do and where/when I work.
Before lockdown my hourly rate wasn't too bad but I did bar work to boost my income. My pay was frozen during lockdown and eventually went up 1% last February.
I am really struggling but every time I broach the subject of a pay increase - he fobs me off. I have tried asking if he will employ me properly - so I get sick pay, holiday pay and have my tax etc done at source BUT he doesn't want to. He says I will be worse off.
I am trying not to be unreasonable about needing a pay increase but I'm really struggling. I need to be able to present him with what is a reasonable amount to pay me.
What do other people charge as an hourly rate for self employed?
Just for context - I get paid £10 per hour and work 35-40 hours per week depending on what work we have.
That has to cover my tax, national insurance, pension, any time off (sick or holiday), my rent, bills food etc.
I have tried looking for other work in my field but there is very little and I think my age now probably counts against me.
I desperately need advise 🙏🏻