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Poor customer service & plain rude!

109 replies

deflatedbirthday · 10/01/2023 19:12

I had a small shopping list so called at my local Tesco express on the way home from work.

I popped the items in a basket and headed to the self service checkout. After scanning one of the items I remembered my DH had massaged to say he had already picked up this particular item at lunch time.

I politely asked a passing staff member if they could please remove the item. There was a queue behind me and people at the other tills.

He proceeded to look me up and down and said quite smugly 'What's the problem? Do you not have enough money?' This was loud enough to be heard.

I said 'No. I just don't need it'. I could feel myself going red. 'Suuuurrre' he said whilst removing the item.

I proceeded to pay hurry out of the shop. I was mortified. The item was not expensive. I could have bought it but it was a fresh item and would have been wasted, hence my reason for asking for it to be removed.

AIBU that this was so rude and lacking any sort of customer service?!

OP posts:
ssd · 13/01/2023 09:10

And op, of course the assistant was being a prick. Either answer comments like that back straight away or forget it. Complaining will do nothing.

KalvinPhillipsBoots · 13/01/2023 09:53

How was he rude? He asked you a question OP, you made the error not him.

WandaWonder · 13/01/2023 10:00

Sure shouldn't have been said but I would just put in the that’s life basket

If I complained every single time something that shouldn't have happened did happen I would not have time for anything else

I also can't say in my job I haven't ever said something I shouldn't

If someone in retail says something I don't agree with I put it down to them having a bad day, not make up some 'omg I am being judged' thing or 'well they must be thinking...'

Frabbits · 13/01/2023 10:02

KalvinPhillipsBoots · 13/01/2023 09:53

How was he rude? He asked you a question OP, you made the error not him.

Come on, anyone not being obtuse for the sake of it can see it's a rude comment. The guy just needed to void it off and be done with it.

That said, I couldn't be arsed complaining about it.

StubbleAndSqueak · 13/01/2023 10:05

KalvinPhillipsBoots · 13/01/2023 09:53

How was he rude? He asked you a question OP, you made the error not him.

Are you serious? He was bloody rude, you should never question someone's ability to pay
Why would you, what did he expect to achieve other than to embarrass her ?
Christ...

warmzebra · 13/01/2023 10:22

@ssd I thought that was weird too but just assumed that poster lived in a very quiet isolated place

TheMatriarchy · 13/01/2023 10:44

Trying to shame someone who might be in poverty is disgraceful. I would report him to management.

deflatedbirthday · 13/01/2023 10:52

Well I seem to have polar responses on here. Yes I should have said something at the time. As explained I'd just finished a long shift, was tired, hungry and wanted to go home. I was also a bit taken aback. It was on the drive home I started to really question if it was an acceptable question and how that might have made some who genuinely couldn't afford to pay feel. What if I'd answered 'I don't have enough money'? A lecture on money management? I did not get the impression from his tone or demeanour that an offer to help would be forthcoming.

Clearly this has rattled a few of you though and IABU.

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Becclescake · 13/01/2023 11:02

YANBU -to ask a customer if something was affordable in this climate is tone deaf.

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