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Would you be offended?

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PoolBreachWatch · 09/01/2023 22:46

If a colleague asked if you just snack a lot at home? When you’ve never discussed your eating habits ever and just eat lunch at work (never breakfast or have any snacks at your desk)

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Patienceisntvirtuous · 09/01/2023 23:37

I think this needs more context. How did the question come about? If someone I didn't know well or speak to a lot randomly came up to me and asked me this, got my answer then walked off, I'd find it very odd.

If a group of people who were on very friendly terms were all talking about if we snack a lot and someone in the group asked me if I did, that's perfectly normal! And then there's all in between.

Where on the scale was it?

Appleblum · 09/01/2023 23:37

Nope. Maybe she wanted to ask you for snacks suggestions? Did you follow up with asking her why? The context is so important here!

Penguinsaregreat · 09/01/2023 23:39

No but it depends. Are you overweight or are you very thin?
My friend’s son is a professional body builder and eats a strict diet. He also follows an incredibly strict exercise routine so I can imagine his work colleagues asking him questions about what he eats etc.

DuplicateUserName · 09/01/2023 23:39

Are you being deliberately vague about your weight OP?

Only it's fairly relevant.

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