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Friendly neighbourhood dispute

32 replies

Frizbe · 04/02/2008 21:04

So I get home tonight, to find a chap from a house on our close standing on the doorstep, having just rung our bell. He says 'can you move your van, its causing people to drive over our cobbles' I say in shock 'oh yes, of course, its only there, because woman over the roads daughter will block the road with her mamouth 4x4 if we park further back, and I shout back to dh who'se unloading dd2 to shift his van' bloke says ok and leaves. We get into house, dh goes and moves the van back half a cars/vans length. We then ponder our actions......

Our garden is being dug up and turned into somewhere to park, so yes I can understand if people are upset with dh's van on the road for about 3 mths now, but they can see work is in progress, aided and abetted by rain etc. The van is parked legally on the road, and is 2 large car lengths away from this blokes front, its not even the bloomin house directly in front of where dh is parking??? the people infront manage to get their own car and van on quite happily as do the people in the corner who also share a garage with the lady whose house we park infront of......I can't see any of them needing to swing onto this blokes driveway, as there is literally loads of room?????

Was quite tempted to knock on my way home from the gym and point out he's parked on his cobbles, which might be upsetting them?

So am I being unreasonable???? Will also have to go and see old lady over road tomorrow, as I know she's going to ask me to move van further back, so her daughter has somewhere to park, so no doubt he'll be round asking her or her daughter to move their vehicle instead

OP posts:
UnquietDad · 06/02/2008 15:54

[brief hijack but] frizbe, do I know you in "real" life? You mentioned something on the "jessie" thread that made me think so!

Frizbe · 06/02/2008 18:07

I'll mail ya!

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Nymphadora · 06/02/2008 18:27

OMG my bf came tonight for an hour between meetings arrived at half 4 by 4.45 someone (different) had came and asked me to get him to move his car cos her son was coming. I said 'oh he is going in an hour '
'oh dear' says she 'my son is coming at 7'
ANd the street was empty , only 3 cars in the street and none on her side bar my bfs

She stayed at the window til he went too

Son hasn't arrived yet

clam · 06/02/2008 18:50

Why does parking evoke such fury in us? I'm getting quite incensed on all your behalfs (halves??),probably because I've been there and have several T-shirts on the subject. We once had neighbours who parked across the end of our garage overnight, and appeared hacked off when we (politely) asked them to move. Their builder then started doing the same thing during the day, and shrugged, "chill, woman" when I objected. He suggested I hover in the street with my hazards on, come and find him (leaving babies in the car and shinning up scaffolding, presumably) and he'd amble down to move. Yeah, right. Anyway, we've since moved house and now have our very own driveway which fits 4 cars!! Bliss!

Nymphadora · 06/02/2008 19:03

I am on a very short fuse atm so its not really helping BUT my street is so easy to park in, masses of space , loads of people without cars and my bfs car is usually only there overnight anyway as he leaves at 6

littlemansmummy · 06/02/2008 19:14

It's strange how people can get so obsessed with parking. We and our neighbours are in semi-detached cottages at the end of a track and the guy who used to live next door would not ring the doorbell, but come and bang on our front window instead(thinking about it still makes my hackles rise) and demand that my DP pull in by an inch, because he had 'about 12 cars' coming imminently and they would need space to pass (the track is 9 feet wide, but presumably they were all driving Hummers). Needless to say, no-one ever turned up. So strange. They moved away eventually (pheeew).

bitofadramaqueen · 06/02/2008 21:17

My mother has become obsessed by parking because people are sooooooo bad round her way. I could share stories for hours (dont worry I wont ).

Suffice to say, whenever we go to visit she always checks where we've parked and makes us move the car all the time to avoid getting into further arguments with the neighbours who have crazy-parking antics. She's now convinced that every slight scratch on the car (as in the regular wear and tear ones that everyone gets) is down to some crazed parking madman.

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