It's my birthday soon and my daughter informed me that my husband had bought me a new phone. She'd already told him I would not want a new phone as the one I've got is only 6 months old and there's nothing wrong with it. Relations between my husband and daughter are not great (but that's not the point to this discussion) and he's effectively ignored her comment and instructed her to find a case for this phone. She only came to me about this as she was worried about my reaction as she knew I didn't want or need a new phone. It's a really expensive one as well and OH is absolutely terrible with money. I am at my wits end as to what to do. I really do not want this but somehow I know this will be all my fault and I'll get it in the neck for being ungrateful and daughter too for telling me. A previously acquired unwanted present for my birthday years ago caused months of quarrels so you can understand my concerns. What do I do?