For a number of year now, sex has almost been non existent and when it does happen, it doesn’t feel as passionate as it did at the start. We have spoken about this many of times, but it still slips backwards and ends up back at square one.
A year or so back, I noticed a well known swinging site appear in a search, which at the time I put down to my DS experimenting. However, since then I joined to see if there was anything more, and have actually come across a profile which matches all their characteristics. There is a profile photo of the person in the bath with no face, but this looks very similar to our bathroom and bath, and also is very similar to the photos the would take.
A few months back they were online, I went into the room where they were and they quickly hid their phone. I left the room and notice that they were offline, but came back on within a few minutes. I repeated this twice, and exactly the same thing happened. That week I approached the subject of an affair, and they haven’t been online since. They obviously denied having an affair.
They have a few friends on the profile, so wondering if I should message them discreetly to get some info on the person, and to put my mind at ease?
It’s all very strange and seems more than a coincidence to me. What would you do?