My Aunt has been continually mean, cheeky and nasty to me since I was 17 years old. She is 15 years older than me and I could never understand what I had done wrong as I have never been anything other than nice and polite to her. Tbh I feel like my dad who is her brother should have stepped in years ago but a lot gets brushed off in my family and blamed on drink. It’s been a very toxic environment, I feel like she’s maybe been jealous as I’ve never done anything to hurt or be mean to her. In the last 10 years I have kept my distance and only seen her at a few family events which I attend as I love my grandad however she’s still managed to say underhand comments to me and had been mean to other immediate family members. I have now deleted her from my life and have no intention to be in her company again. She has however sent her daughter to deliver a present for my 8 year old daughter. It makes me feel uncomfortable and as if she is not respecting my boundaries as she knows I do not want anything to do with her. I want to drop it at her door as I don’t want anything from her or for her to use against me however my husband thinks I am being unreasonable and intentionally causing more friction. So am I being unreasonable to return the gift to her door?