My sister lives very far away from me.She has always been dangerous in terms of her toxic tongue.She speaks badly about people she professes to love and has a habit of exaggerating and adding extras onto tales of woe, particularly if it involves gossip or scandal. Most of our family and friends know this about her so most are very guarded around her, including me .She has always been unhappy and delights in others misfortune. My sister is an alcoholic but does not drink as much as she used to some years ago.This is relevant. She will smile to your face and offer all sorts of support and reel you in with kindness, only to find out sometime later that she has been badmouthing you or sharing private conversations. My sister rang my other sister recently as she' is worried ' about my alcoholism and health.I am not an alcoholic and my health is relatively good.I'm working on keeping fit and healthy. I drink alcohol when I go to celebrations and wine at home sometimes.My alcohol consumption is of no worry to me, nor does it impact my ability to work, parent, financially support myself and my kids. There have been times that I have gone through stages of drinking more than I normally eg when my Mum died, marriage broke up etc but those were phases. Over Christmas. I got tipsy while at a friends for drinks with all our friends and family. My exh came round for dinner and there was no problem. He came round next day and became verbally abusive about our kids not wanting to be with him.He then shouted at me about being drunk the day before. My youngest son told his cousin who in turn told his mother( dangerous sister....that Dad was angry because of mum's alcoholism. I am not sure if my son who is 10 did say that or whether it was twisted by my sister, which is a common occurence, but the context and content of the conversation was untrue. My dangerous sister has now rang my sister with whom I am very close, to air her ' serious concerns about my alcoholism'......My sister with whom Im close went nuts as she know how dangerous the other sister is and told her that she was making a very serious statement and was completely and utterly wrong as we live near each other. What do I do... I can only think of going low contact. I cannot let dangerous sister know of their conversation.Thanks.