How did it end for you?

[Nightsonthetiles]

By it different from my post last night 🫣🫣🙈🙈

I've posted under another name before and you all overwhelming said ltb due to his treatment of an existing and currently untreated health condition (on the waitlist). I wasn't ready and I still felt/ feel there was something to salvage. We have 3 DC...

Tonight there's been several issues (him not doing dry January as promised) verbal goading and then starting an argument when he couldn't work out what a sound was and I giggled he'd locked the dog out accidentally (momentary so no harm to the dog) I was awful for pointing out/ what had I done...

I just have this sinking feeling he doesn't talk to me right... But then I worry, I'm so overweight after 4 mcs, 3dcs and periods of depression.

He's not an evil person/ not abusive and he's had to deal with so much with my mh.

What was the proverbial straw for you??

He went back to work immediately after I suffered a bad miscarriage and was rushed to hospital in an ambulance (with him present!). I was at risk of requiring a blood transfusion due to the amount of blood loss and couldn’t as much as walk to the toilet unaided.

His boss was appalled and ordered him home so ”D”H then decided to do some “sightseeing” and chill/relax whilst I lay in hospital without any visitors. (I was living in a different country to my family and my friends and: work colleagues were not aware of miscarriage until later when I told them).

When he did rock up to take me home (9 days later) he complained about the cost of treatment and mumbled, “it was just as well we had medical insurance”.

I thought “what the hell am I doing trying to salvage something from this?” and booked flights home for me and my DC.