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Narc ex admitted to wanting to be a glorified cocklodger...

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hecameclean · 01/01/2023 16:13

Cannot get my head round the entitlement and arrogance! He has no home, No job atm as he's on long term sick leave.We were together 2.5 years.He got a little controlling, sneery, impatient and was asking to extend his stay every weekend.I have a busy home, school aged kids, full time job involving travel and I was honest from the beginning that I wouldnt be blending or moving anyone into my home when kids were living at home. He has his own kids that he sees eow.We finally broke up when he ignored me for days on end after a minor disagreement..he hated being pulled up on anything that didnt portray him in a superior light,. I had enough then. He moved in with family as he cant afford rent aswell as maintenace for his kids etc etc. I asked him over the holidays, when he messaged, if he had any house sorted for himself and he went nuts at me.Said that at least his family offered him a home and that it was mean that I hadnt. AIBU here ?

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PenanceAdair · 01/01/2023 18:37

He sounds entitled to leeching. That's definitely a great reason to be happy he's out for your life. Never mind his guilt trip, you've done nothing wrong.

DarceyG · 07/01/2023 21:12

Had one of these he only lasted a few months, no way am I supporting a grown man. He already has a new victim thankfully so he’s leaving me alone. These type of men are such a turn off. Urghhh I feel repulsed that I spent a couole of months of oh can you get his babe because he never had a pot to piss in. Think they’re superior but they’re an embarrassment to all men and have no self respect .

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