So my husband and I moved to a very remote part of the country where I am originally from and my family still live. Since moving here, my mother in law has moved to the same area and whenever my husbands family visit they all talk about wanting to move here. Part of the reason we moved was just to be a bit more independent as his family are quite co-dependent and we wanted a bit of distance, I do love them all but they don't have much independence from one another and are quite intense whereas my husband and I prefer to do our own thing and are pretty chill. AIBU to be finding this quite difficult? It's just so odd to me to be followed this way and feels like alot of pressure on us.