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Help! AIBU to go horse riding WITHOUT a helmet?

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Horsequestion · 30/12/2022 16:27

Ok I know I sound completely stupid but please hear me out! I’m just posting here because I asked my friend and she said it would be a good idea to get some other opinions on this from people who aren’t biased or know me.

I've ridden horses for a long time and am an experienced (but far from perfect!) rider. Right now I’m trying to bring my horse on and hopefully event or showjump him (whichever he is better at!) this year.

ive got a condition that flares up sometimes and makes my skin extremely painful and sore. It’s all over my head, neck and ears and putting my helmet on is actually excruciating. I’ve tried covers, dressings and all sorts to stop direct pressure on my skin but nothing makes a difference and the contact on my skin is horrific. I’ve tried different helmet brands and had them all professionally fitted for me but unfortunately nothing helps because my skin is the problem.

When the flare up is under control it’s fine, but when it’s active it can last for weeks or up to months until we get the right treatment for it. I feel so much better riding without my helmet because it’s not nearly as painful or uncomfortable. I don’t fall off very often and I would obviously always wear my helmet when hacking, jumping or doing XC. But for general schooling and doing flatwork, would I be a complete idiot not to wear my helmet?

My horse is quite big (16hh) and with the added height of the saddle etc I would estimate I’m around 5 ft 6 off the ground so obviously it’s a long way to fall off and I know it’s dangerous, but if the absolute worst thing I’m doing is cantering and I’m not jumping I’m just wondering if it’s worth the slight risk because I’m not in agony with my helmet on and even with the helmet you could still have a bad head injury anyway.

worth mentioning there’s no kids at the yard so I wouldn’t be a bad influence on them to ride without a helmet

sorry that was really long, I’m probably being stupid about it all but I’m just not sure what to do😢

OP posts:
ScatteredMama82 · 03/01/2023 13:17

By that logic don’t wear a seatbelt if you’ve never been in a car crash. Don’t wear a cycle helmet if you’ve never been knocked off your bike. FFS 🤦‍♀️

Treeeeeeee · 03/01/2023 13:23

I don't know if it will help but have you looked at a hat with a removable liner. Riding hats retain the dirt, sweat, skin etc which I can't imagine helps your skin. One with a removable liner could be washed frequently or even cleaned for every ride. Perfect time to consider it now if you are buying a new hat anyway

avocadotofu · 03/01/2023 13:24

I think it's a silly risk to take.

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