Toxic home and need of a break - alone or with my child?

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Babibel · 28/12/2022 20:17

Current situation: I live abroad in a cold country and I want to go to my homeland to see my mum. Husband is always awful and child (4.5 yrs old) imitates husband atm.
Question: should I go alone and enjoy some peace OR should I take my child with me to bond again and attempts to fix his behaviour?

Thank you for your advice💛

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Babibel · 29/12/2022 13:12

SleeplessInEngland · 29/12/2022 08:52

You've got much bigger problems than just needing a holiday.

For sure. But I’m desperate right now. My son kicks me and yell at me. I’m feeling really the need to go away before I go completely insane. His dad talks to me like I’m a shit constantly. I’m so done

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converseandjeans · 28/12/2022 22:12

I think you would be able to reconnect with DS if you took him.

Which country are you from? Does DH want to relocate?

I think he might want to relocate. I’m from France.

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