Been with my BF for 11 years, we have two brilliant kids, we are fairly young. Have our own home.
But I am SICK to the back teeth of how he makes excuses up for his mum. This has been a constant disagreement in our relationship that I am honestly ready to throw the towel in & tell him to move out.
She couldn’t be bothered to come & see her grandkids yesterday as she was “sick” but in my BFs words it’s not the kind of sick that’s contagious, even though she cooked & invited most of the family to her home yesterday.
But she was too sick to come to ours. We live two minutes away. We used to go to hers on Christmas Day but stopped since my BF & his mums new husband don’t get along for reasons far to deep to get into.
Now if she’d have said I’m just a bit busy is it ok to come round tomorrow or through the week that’s absolutely fine but she hasn’t seen the kids since august & she simply said I won’t be coming I’m sick. So my BF had to walk to hers to get the kids presents. But she seen all of her other grandkids.
So AIBU to simply cut her out completely but also that my BF should have pulled her up about this? Which he won’t & he hasn’t.
This has been a build up of things over 11 years & yesterday was just the final straw for me. I’ve never been horrible to her she simply doesn’t like me because my BF is her favourite son. It’s pathetic. Sorry for going on. I’m sure I haven’t explained it properly. I just feel sad for the kids & annoyed my BF doesn’t ever back me up.