Posting here for traffic as I really need opinions and advice (other then the obvious)
Split with my toxic ex (narcissistic and abusive) last year. Early in the split there was significant harassment and stalking. He would call, text 100s of times a day (I'd block the number but he'd get a new one), turn up at my house knocking and kicking the door for hours and turn up "coincidentally" when I was out. Police were involved and this eventually stopped being frequent but was still sporadically ongoing. Logged with police each time.
Over the past few weeks, especially the last week including today, the calls, texts and visits to my house have become very frequent again. I've called the police each time but they have said its christmas perioid so its not priority and someone will be in touch within the next 2 weeks. I accidently answered the door yesterday to him as I was expecting a takeaway but immediately closed and locked the door, this infuriated him and he was eventually escorted away by police after i rang them 7 times.
After that, I came to a family members house as i didnt feel safe and today he has been non stop on 5 different numbers, leaving countless voicemails, etc. He's clearly enraged. Again not a priority to police.
I'm not afraid right now about my safety as he doesn't know where I am but I'm very concerned about my property being left dormant for a period of time. My MH is taking a huge hit stressing over this and I just want to be free.
How, if possible, can I get rid of him and feel safe (or atleast secure going back home)? My property is rented and any damage he causes I will be liable for too. I don't know what to do and he's ruining my Christmas.
I feel terrible putting this onto family too, after a tough year they deserve to just have a stress free few weeks enjoying the festivities 😔