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To withdraw from this job offer……

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Rockschooldropout · 21/12/2022 17:30

Gutted to have to do this but think I may have to walk away from a job before I’ve even started !

I’m self employed but due to the pandemic business has been badly affected so I’ve applied for a part time job and been offered it .

The job is within a large company and I’ve been given no details for HR but rather an app from an outsourced company where things like holiday requests etc are made .

My agreed hours are 24 a week and it’s on a shift basis. I was told it was however a zero hours contract although at the same time made clear to me I am expected to work 24 hours a week and three weekends in four . At the time of interview I wasn’t asked about booked holidays but did mention I was getting married in April .

At the time of acceptance I told my line manager that I was getting married and asked if they’d honour that . She replied
that she would “accept that absolutely “ in an email but said I had to request this leave via the HR app.

I start straight after Christmas and after submitting the leave request on the app it’s come back as denied and my line manager is now on annual leave for three weeks so I feel that I’ve no choice but to withdraw from the job or … worse …cancel my long awaited and all paid for wedding .

My other option I wondered .. is if it’s zero hours contract , then I believe I’m not obliged to accept work ? So legally could I actually say that sorry I’m not available to work the days that fall when I’m getting married ?

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Rockschooldropout · 31/12/2022 22:57

@Preparedforjobnottolast Yes I suspect it might have been the same with me , it was also a hotel receptionist job

@NutellaEllaElla Yes I thought it was madness ! I’m self employed and was looking for a part time job to top up my self employment with the cost of everything going through the roof so it’s not a desperate issue , however in a way I’m glad they revealed themselves before I started the job

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grumpycow1 · 31/12/2022 23:02

YABU to quit before asking someone for a definite no -these automated things can be easy to mess up and maybe line manager just forgot. I’d find out who your line manager’s manager is and forward the email to them and ask if it can still be honoured (let them know you’d like to know before LM gets back hence emailing). Failing that they must have a HR helpline where you could get an answer?

Scurryfunge12 · 31/12/2022 23:04

Take the job and carry on as normal until manager gets back. Speak to her asap about your wedding and if she goes back on her word then drop the job.

Tohaveandtohold · 31/12/2022 23:14

Good for you on standing your ground and quitting now. Imagine changing goal posts even before you started the job, believe me, It’ll only get worse when they think they have you over the barrel.
I remember having a job like that 8 years ago, the company recruits new people every 2 weeks, they have such a high turnover but won’t change anything about their culture. Everyone was told at the interview that the job was shifts between 8-6 on Mon to Fri and you’ll work one weekend every 3 weeks. The first day we started after training, we all found our rota for the next month as 2-11pm, 1-10pm and every weekend working. It was crazy, everyone already left their old jobs so it’s like one was stuck if you needed money, almost everyone left within 3 months but there’s always new recruits, told the same lie and then the cycle continues.

Rockschooldropout · 01/01/2023 01:11

Scurryfunge12 · 31/12/2022 23:04

Take the job and carry on as normal until manager gets back. Speak to her asap about your wedding and if she goes back on her word then drop the job.

I updated earlier in the thread to say that I withdrew from the job after I was sent my shift pattern and it was completely different to agreed inc every single weekend and I was essentially told .. tough

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Rockschooldropout · 01/01/2023 01:12

@grumpycow1 I updated the thread to say I’d rejected the job after being told just before starting I was working completely different shifts to agreed and with no weekends off

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Rockschooldropout · 01/01/2023 01:15

@Tohaveandtohold I suspect the same with this company , they essentially just lie at interview , thankfully I’m self employed and was just looking for a part time job on top so I was in the position to be able to tell them thanks but no thanks !

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LeFeu · 01/01/2023 02:26

I’d take it and worst case hand your notice in before the wedding, then at least you’re getting paid whilst you sort it out!

LeFeu · 01/01/2023 02:27

That’ll teach me to rtft lol. Good for you op, have a lovely wedding x

Rockschooldropout · 01/01/2023 23:46

LeFeu · 01/01/2023 02:27

That’ll teach me to rtft lol. Good for you op, have a lovely wedding x

Thank you ☺️

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