Around 3 years ago on a night out, I had lost my friends and saw a familiar face across the bar. It was someone who I didn’t know very well but felt comfortable enough to have a drink with. He knows my family pretty well and is friends with my cousin. Stupidly, I decided to go back to his friends house, there were 3 of us, for a drink. Silly choice by me and I should have just gone home.
We were all having a laugh and silly banter. General chit chat.
No flirting at all. I didn’t and don’t fancy him in the slightest and was clear in my actions that it wasn’t anything more than a drink and a chat. I wasn’t drunk enough to give mixed signals. He poured me a drink and the next thing I remember is waking up in the dark, with him on top of me. I knew what was happening but I couldn’t move or even speak. I tried to move but then just passed out again. I woke up the next day and there were more men sat on the sofa (3)
but I don’t even remember them being there from the night before but they were saying how drunk I was and how I was all over the guy I know. The guy who I know was rolling a fag and sprinkling something on the top of it and when I asked him what it was, he said it was Roofies, and that’s what I gave you! It took a while to realise what that was but then I ran to the toilet and burst out crying as I remembered what happened. One guy came to see if I was ok and he confronted the guy I know. I don’t think any of the men apart from the one I know, had any part in what happened. It’s silly,
I shouldn’t still think about it but i still feel violated. I never reported it but wondering if I did the right thing? I still see his name pop up on social media etc and it makes my blood boil. This guy has a family and a young teenage daughter. Let’s hope nobody treats his daughter like he treated me 🤢