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When will things go back to being not shit?

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Intheclub · 20/12/2022 11:37

In 2019, everything seemed happier. We were prosperous (on the whole and certainly more than compared to now) and because of that the economy grew. Putting the heating on when it was cold or going out for a meal once in a while was something that was totally normal for the majority. Of course, that isn’t to say there was no poverty and everything was perfect in 2019 - far from it- but it was significantly better than what we have now. There seemed to be far more joy in life, people seemed happier and less worried.

There has since then been two very traumatic crisis - the pandemic and the cost of living. I honestly dread to think the effect this will have on “Gen Z” teens as well as young kids with a worldwide disease meaning they can’t have natural childhood experiences and then (for many) their family struggling to afford even basic essentials.

I don’t know if this is everyone’s experience but I can certainly say that within my own group of friends it’s so depressing. Half of them never want to do anything, usually because of money or after covid they just can’t be bothered. Many of my friends are also struggling with their mental health.

It honestly feels like 2019 was the end of some kind of “golden age” and I honestly don’t see a way of getting back there any time soon. I suspect it will take another generation to come through before the impacts of this all stop having such a strain on the world.

Aibu to ask when, if ever, things will stop being so crap?

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EmmaAgain22 · 21/12/2022 17:33

I have managed to read the article, it's just fluff, and totally irrelevant if you have any daily practical problems.

but the line "technological advances are dizzying" - yes, that's half the bloody problem!

lucysnowe2 · 21/12/2022 18:22

I don't know OP if you just want to have a moan (understandable) or are feeling v low, but if the latter, this may help:
futurecrunch.com/99goodnews2022/?ref=future-crunch-newsletter

Good news generally, and also useful to discuss with kids if they are feeling a bit anxious about things.

XingMing · 21/12/2022 21:38

Technological advances are surely only a threat if you don't understand their potential value. I am 66, and I still value scientific and medical progress, and not just when it affects me. I love progress and technological advances are good news, even when we don't quite understand the benefits.

XingMing · 21/12/2022 21:45

Can I amend that to say technological benefits may be valuable even before we totally grasp their full value? I liked life before it was tech driven, but I don't think it will be worse once tech is more important, just very different.

Computersaysno123 · 21/12/2022 21:46

KateBain · 20/12/2022 12:43

God these threads bring out the Pollyanna in me!

Covid and lockdown are a distant memory for the majority! The shops, cafes, restaurants and Christmas attractions are crammed.

Most will weather the CoL crisis as they did the financial crash of 2008/9. It's what humans do.

Lucky you. But open your mind a little. Not everyone is in this boat. Wow

TruckerBarbie · 21/12/2022 23:06

When I hear people saying things like 'the 90s felt optimistic', I often think it's more likely that this is just a reflection of them being in their teens/twenties rather than mid 40s with loads of bills and a stressful job etc.

You also don't feel all the possibilities you did when young as you know changing career/retraining can be a real mission once you're halfway up the ladder in one sector - for a youth this isn't an issue as time is on your side and you haven't already spent years pursuing any given area.

DailyMailReporterTellMeAllYourSecrets · 22/12/2022 00:11

It will probably get better but at a very slow pace. One of my favourite memories from 2019 was dancing in the crowd at Pride. It was just so great and, compared to now, feels so reckless 😭

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