We have been dating for a year. He is very good looking, not short of attention/female company. However he has been single for many years. He is a single father to an adult child who is now grown up.
I have noticed from the beginning that he holds back a lot, I get the impression he does not want us to get close etc as at times he does not keep the connection there or even try to build more of a bond connection.
I have noticed at time he can be a little controlling and have been taken back a couple of times when he has shown this side. He also has trouble with ejaculation. I think he has ED and seems embarrassed about it a times.
I have wondered if he is secretly gay or has depression. I really don't know what is going on with him. He is a complete mystery. When I try to end it he always comes back.
Has anyone has any similar experiences?