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Just a rant from a nurse

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Bestkindaparty · 17/12/2022 20:42

I know there's a 101 threads about the nursing strike. But I just need an anonymous forum to rant.
I left home at 6am this morning and I'm only just getting home. I need a shower because someone threw their hot coffee over me because I didn't answer their buzzer fast enough and they needed a pillow. I didn't answer it quick enough because I was performing cpr on a child with suspected strep A. 12 hours into my shift without a break because we just don't have the staff.
All week on Facebook tiktok and other social media all I've seen is how disgusting us nurses are. How people will die because of the strikes all because we want more money.
Yes we want to paid fairly. We do not get paid enough for the training we do. 2300 hours of unpaid work and then other 3000 hours of uni. Plus all the responsibilities we have. Some people think we're just doctors assistants but its not like that anymore. But the main reason is we're tired of fearing for our pins (that we pay a yearly fee for) we're tired of not being able to care for people the way we want because there's not enough staff. The ratio is supposed to be 1 to 3. I can't remember when I've had less than 8 patients. We want to protect the NHS. We need people to join and to retain current staff who are leaving in droves due to burnout. What happens when there's none of us left?
We had no option but to strike. Nothing else has worked. We want to protect ours and everyone's future. Personally I don't want to cry on every drive to and from work because I'm scared someone will die due to me not being able to give the care they need.
If you've got this far thanks for reading

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Balloonsandroses · 17/12/2022 20:45

Doctor here. I support the nurses strike 100%. It’s an incredibly tough job under ideal circumstances and under current circumstances it’s just not possible to do safely - and the stress that causes is appalling. Desperately underpaid too. If either of my kids said they wanted to be a nurse I’d try very hard to discourage them and that’s a really sad state of affairs because I have such huge respect for my nursing colleagues.

cadburyegg · 17/12/2022 20:45

YANBU. I support nurses striking 100%. Sending love to you, you're doing an amazing job Flowers

Bestkindaparty · 17/12/2022 20:46

Also just to add. We're not angels. There's bad people in every profession but the majority of us just want to help and care for people in need. We're just burnt out and scared for the future

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Bestkindaparty · 17/12/2022 20:47

Balloonsandroses · 17/12/2022 20:45

Doctor here. I support the nurses strike 100%. It’s an incredibly tough job under ideal circumstances and under current circumstances it’s just not possible to do safely - and the stress that causes is appalling. Desperately underpaid too. If either of my kids said they wanted to be a nurse I’d try very hard to discourage them and that’s a really sad state of affairs because I have such huge respect for my nursing colleagues.

Thank you. I have 2 daughters and my eldest has said she wants to be a nurse like mummy. It breaks my heart that I try and discourage this when I should be proud

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1982mommaof4 · 17/12/2022 20:48

100% support you all, ignore social media. Have a lovely evening shower, pjs and some chocolate

Bestkindaparty · 17/12/2022 20:48

Thank you. I know the majority support us. But this weak I've let the bad comments get to me x

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Bestkindaparty · 17/12/2022 20:49

Week*

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Bestkindaparty · 17/12/2022 20:50

Thank you. That's my plan for the night x

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AdelaideRo · 17/12/2022 20:50

Another doctor. I also support these strikes wholeheartedly.

The real terms pay cuts and diminuation of working conditions needs to be reversed for all NHS staff. Unless they are we will not be able to recruit degree educated staff.

Sherrystrull · 17/12/2022 20:50

I'm a teacher. I support a nursing strike 100%. I'm sorry you've had an awful day. Thank you for all you do.

stitchinguru · 17/12/2022 20:50

I fully support you.

VladmirsPoutine · 17/12/2022 20:51

I support you 100% OP. I can't imagine the stress you all must be under. Can I ask what happened with the coffee thrower? Surely the police were called?

grafittiartist · 17/12/2022 20:51

You have complete support from me and anyone I have spoken to about it.
I am angry about your conditions, and am glad that you are fighting to defend your profession.

Luredbyapomegranate · 17/12/2022 20:51

I’m really sorry about the coffee incident OP.

I support the nurses strike 100% and I think most people do, despite the politicised ranting in some papers.

Thanks for doing such a great job, and I hope someone can have a sharp word with the coffee Twat for you - that is not acceptable.

Bestkindaparty · 17/12/2022 20:52

Same to you. Teachers get a really bad rep to. I think you all are amazing

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isladeltesoro · 17/12/2022 20:52

YANBU.

I haven't spoken to anyone who opposes the strike.

Nursing deserves so much more respect and nurses deserve fair pay. What you do is more than anyone should have to.

Thank you and I hope things get better.

HeadacheEarthquake · 17/12/2022 20:52

Support you 100% and thankyou for everything you do

GurlwiththeCurl · 17/12/2022 20:53

Total support from me. I have been rushed into hospital several times over the last few years and have nothing but praise for how I was treated by everyone: ambulance staff, nurses, doctors etc.

WavingCatpaw · 17/12/2022 20:53

❤️

Mummaganoush · 17/12/2022 20:55

I fully support you. If people arent angry they arent listening, sadly seems the anger is misplaced!

Tbird5 · 17/12/2022 20:55

100% support you. And thank you for all you do xx

SupremeCommanderServalan · 17/12/2022 20:57

Ignore the media @Bestkindaparty Most ordinary people in this country support you 100%.

Lowkeyloopy · 17/12/2022 20:57

I completely support you OP. You had no choice but to strike. I could never do your job and I have the utmost respect for nurses. Hang in there. You’re changing nursing for your daughter and she’ll have so many reasons to be proud of you!

Fairyliz · 17/12/2022 20:58

Is part of the problem the fact that nurses are working 12 hour shifts? I can’t imagine many people could do that without struggling, whatever their job.
Can anyone explain why nurses do that rather than a more normal 8 hours?

Bog · 17/12/2022 20:58

Thank you 😊
When my wife was in labour she would ask the nurses had they eaten or had a drink and offered her snacks and drinks to them and offered her cooling spray as they were masked up and it was summer. I thought she was being silly but I realise now.
I'm so sorry for your treatment you have my respect and I hope you get a raise that makes a difference.