My younger brother (28) hasn't spoken to me since last Christmas. We've never been especially close but we had a shock family bereavement in late 2020, and I regularly messaged him last year to check how he was. Not once did he contact me or ask how I was doing though. I saw him at Christmas last year and everything was fine (except for his contant boasting and bigging himself up and little interest in anything or anyone else). I've just left things this year and unsurprisingly I've not heard a peep out of him.
I can't be bothered to get him and his partner presents this Christmas. I won't be seeing them over Christmas, and won't be seeing them next Christmas either as I'm away, so probably won't speak to them for at least another 2 years now. But my mum just sent me a list of ideas for presents for them, including some £50ish household items. I've said no presents all round but she thinks I should get them something because they're hard up! (Their household income is around £60-70k, no kids, and my brother is sitting on £100k of inheritance money, so they're hardly on the breadline). Aibu to just not get them anything?