So we got chatting and the relationship is over a few weeks now.It ended when I got sick of his shitty behaviour, ignoring me, stonewalling me, silent treatment and punishing me a few times by leaving weekends away on 2 occasions and insisting we went home when he had his tantrums or I called him out on something. I dumped him and feel massive relief.I have him blocked on everything bar one platform that I hadn't even thought he'd find me on. So he found me and tried to tell me that he would have been there for me in a specific circumstance, if I'd asked, among many other explanations trying to justify his behaviour. The thing is , he has rewritten the entire narrative of his behaviour! It's like he has completely obliterated facts and has tried to twist and change stuff.Only because I know that it's real and these things really did happen, I'd begin to question my own judgement.What a headfuck!!! NO apology,accountability or honesty.... just an attempt to justify his own behaviour and blame me for not asking for help. I have been brutally honest with him as he wasnt getting the hints that he was tight with money and an unequal partner ...so I spat it out. He went absolutly nuts!! Told me to fuck myself, he's never spoken to me like that before, ever. Called me nasty etc etc. I told the truth.I told him exactly what he was like and when presented with the honest truth, he went ballistic..almost like an alter ego. Like I was talking about some one he didnt know. Am I missing something here ????