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Is Harry okay?

114 replies

Notsurewhattothinkreally · 15/12/2022 22:44

Just finished the remainder of the documentary..is he well, do you think?

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figmaofmyimagination · 15/12/2022 23:18

Hairy is totally ok. If you don’t want to wax, don’t.

Oh, wait. What?

NippyWoowoo · 15/12/2022 23:18

Are you ok?

They're here to help:

www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help/contact-samaritan/

toastofthetown · 15/12/2022 23:19

Yeah, he definitely seems to be doing the best from One Direction.

Disabrie22 · 15/12/2022 23:31

He’s not the first to have a barney with his family, not the first to have a wife who doesn’t like his parents. He’s got cash, status and most likely no one says no to him - ever.
He's a celeb now, selling his life for cash - are those people ever ok?

Bluekerfuffle · 16/12/2022 00:06

If being ok means looking miserable or grumpy as hell and whining about everything, then yes, he’s ok.

KloppsTeeth · 16/12/2022 01:46

He’s doing much better than me in terms of being able to pay the bills.

He doesn’t look happy, but then there are three people in his marriage: Harry, Meghan and the camera operator. He’s been recording his own Truman Show whilst he has claimed every click of a camera triggers painful memories. He’s a hostage in his own life, it seems.

Mrmojorising71 · 16/12/2022 01:55

No skin in the game whatsoever, I'm Irish so this is just a side show for me, I don't think Harry's alright, I believe he thinks he is but he's caught up in a drama of his own making, it's literally a shit show at this stage.

Lemonlady22 · 16/12/2022 02:23

Do you mean H?

pompomdaisy · 16/12/2022 03:39

Tell me how ok would you be if you needed to get away for a break and a multi millionaire who you have never met decided he would send you his private jet and let you stay in his spare mansion indefinitely. Personally I would feel bloody great!

nalabae · 16/12/2022 03:50

Why don’t you ask him instead of strangers who don’t know him

Spambod · 16/12/2022 04:00

He seems paranoid about security and the press. The irony being that he is the press and the one selling stories about his family both immediate and royal. His life seems to be full of contradictions. Here we are three years later and he is over nothing. His obsession with Diana and willingness to sell her pain and dredge her up instead of letting her rest in piece is awful. He did tons of drugs as a teenager and I wonder if this has contributed to his paranoid and fragile mental state.

SomethingOriginal2 · 16/12/2022 04:07

No of course not. His mum died horrifically when he was young, he was paraded in front of the media and made to thank people while grieving. He was raised by Charles and the woman he was shagging while married to their mother which destroyed her. He was the scapegoat to the golden child. Couldn't make any strong true relationships because everyone got pushed away by his family and the media. He got forced to leave the army because his status was more of a hindrance. And then when he found someone who could stick it out his family turned on her and him, and his child and he has his family have been ripped to shreds.

People get so caught up in him having alot of money and don't realise that there's few of us that could withstand that. I really hope he is receiving professional help and that he can move on.

MintyFreshOne · 16/12/2022 04:26

EcafTnuc · 15/12/2022 23:10

Probably no more or less ok than the gimps on here who make statements like they secretly live in the walls of BP and have intimate access to them all.

They have PR teams and you know ppl are posting as part of their job, they definitely know what’s up but won’t tell us 😆

Starlia · 16/12/2022 04:38

Having never the man, I can only say he comes across as very tense, unhappy and very out of touch.

MarshaMelrose · 16/12/2022 04:40

He's never got over his mother's death. He couldn't save her. So he's married a woman who he says is just like his mother. And he's trying to save her. It's a bit oedipal and screwed up.

RoobarbandCustud · 16/12/2022 04:51

I don't think he's OK. There is so little chemistry between him and Meghan now, I can't imagine that there is much in his life now that has real meaning except his children. I worry about him longer term, he's thrown his lot in so entirely with her, burnt his bridges with his wider family. I don't like Meghan as portrayed on the TV serial, I was very sympathetic before as she was undoubtedly treated very badly by the media.

KaleAtYale · 16/12/2022 05:01

A loving wife, healthy children, the removal of people he doesn’t like from his life, financially comfortable, good people around him...I think he’s most likely doing just fine. 😉

Jennybeans401 · 16/12/2022 05:06

I'm sympathetic to an extent, I think it's a shame that it had to be this way.

But..really to go in front of the world and dog your family like that is horrible.

And they are privileged, many people right now are suffering. All across the world people are living in poverty, there are so many people who are struggling. It seems a bit tone deaf of H&M considering how the world is.

HerReputationMadeItDifficultToProceed · 16/12/2022 05:18

EcafTnuc · 15/12/2022 23:10

Probably no more or less ok than the gimps on here who make statements like they secretly live in the walls of BP and have intimate access to them all.

Well said!

stillvicarinatutu · 16/12/2022 05:20

I think he is perfectly well.
And knows his mind .
And is happy . Good for him .

GingerScallop · 16/12/2022 05:33

pompomdaisy · 16/12/2022 03:39

Tell me how ok would you be if you needed to get away for a break and a multi millionaire who you have never met decided he would send you his private jet and let you stay in his spare mansion indefinitely. Personally I would feel bloody great!

this. And so very very interesting to get such huuuge favours from people one has never met (probably never heard of). We live in such different worlds but then I knew that already

changingstages · 16/12/2022 05:33

Why the fuck does anyone give a fuck and post these fucking threads. Keep it to
The royal family pages you fucking loons.

GingerScallop · 16/12/2022 05:34

KaleAtYale · 16/12/2022 05:01

A loving wife, healthy children, the removal of people he doesn’t like from his life, financially comfortable, good people around him...I think he’s most likely doing just fine. 😉

exactly

banananas1978 · 16/12/2022 05:38

Notsurewhattothinkreally · 15/12/2022 22:44

Just finished the remainder of the documentary..is he well, do you think?

A disfunctional family..his dad married his mistress who he saw when his mum gave birth to him? I mean, that would mess up a relationship with your father if you loved your mum right.

I personally think RF needs to stay back in medieval times where they are from.

Mintleafcocktail · 16/12/2022 06:25

No, he isnt. He's in a relationship with a narc who has successfully isolated him from all his family (she doesnt talk to hers either). You just watch. I predict that once he is no longer useful to her she'll divorce him (I reckon in 3 or so years) and then the accusations will start against him: "he abused me", "he sided with his family" etc. It will be very nasty and very bitter and I'm not sure he'll survive it.