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Dont think I love my husband anymore. Looking at divorce

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Anxiousmumlife · 15/12/2022 21:54

I feel like I have completely fallen out of love with my husband. I feel empty and emotionless when I am with him. We have 2 children together, 1 is 2 and a half the other is 7 weeks old.
He called our 7 week old a "fat c**t" because she was hungry a lot through the night when cluster feeding, if he bottle feeds our baby he balances the bottle in his arm so he can still plsy a game on his phone with his other hand so I just pick her up and feed her properly. He went to a work christmas party after working all day and knowing how much i was struggling with toddler and new born. After a massive argument about feeling like im forgotten he said he wasnt even fussed about going to the xmas party so i just feel like even though he wasnt bothered about going but still did and left me to struggle just sums up how little he cares.
He doesnt even pay attention to know the name of our sons nursery.
I just don't feel any love towards him now. Feel like a single parent anyway.

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bloodywhitecat · 15/12/2022 22:00

He's already checked out of the marriage and parenthood hasn't he. I know little babies don't understand the insult but that would kill things for me, it is disgusting language to use about a tiny baby. I would start planning the split in your shoes. You, and the children, deserve better.

summergone · 15/12/2022 22:13

He sounds absolutely awful , leave him before the dc realise what a waste of space he is

Cyrrik · 15/12/2022 22:24

Gosh OP. So sorry you’re going through this. He sounds horrible to use language like that for a baby!
have you got a support network close by? Your mum, or sister or any family/friends? Can you stay with them whilst you figure things out?

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