Hi, I've posted a few times under different names. My husband was kicked out due to weird behaviour and I reported coercive control to police without taking it to the stage of having him questioned.
He was my partner from my daughter being 2 to her being 6 before I kicked him out having finally had enough.
I cut contact with him after this and he just harassed me to "see my daughter" but she is not his daughter but she knew we were together, called him dad, but knew he was not her biological father.
Since he's left she's mentioned a few things about picking up on "him not letting you go out" and "hurting my arm when he took me upstairs" and I've mentioned the latter to police but it's all been kind of put to bed now.
I've had contact from a solicitor about mediation with regards to "your child" as in mine and his but he's not her father
I think next he will go for contact via the courts based on us being married and her being a child of the family.
I don't want to act unreasonably. I would not cut him from my daughter's life if he would be a positive influence but I don't feel that being made to spend time with him would be positive for her.
He seems to not have told his solicitor he is not her actual father, nor that I went to the police about DA even though I informed him of this when asking him to leave us alone.
Am I being UR? Has he done anything wrong in trying to get me to come to mediation even though there was DA ?