AIBU to not want my brother over for Christmas?
Brother is 27 and lives at home with my dad (70). He's currently off work for some mental health issues which he is talking to a councellor about. However he has a temper when he gets annoyed culminating last night in him grabbing hold of my dad and shoving him and texting my mum saying "if he mithers me again in the next 30 mins I'm going to knife him".
Dad is OK but keeping well clear. I do believe it was probably said in the heat of the moment but can I trust him not to snap and do something crazy? Probably not. I have a 4 month old dd so don't want him anywhere near her now. We are hosting Christmas at ours and my mum will be devastated to leave him out but I have to think of my baby, that's not something you can just say and take back. I've been up all night worrying and don't know how to help him get the help he needs. I'm so worried for my dad in the same house as him. What can I do? Any suggestions?