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To keep the refund from the energy company?

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Nymeria6 · 12/12/2022 22:44

We've been refunded £180 from the energy company.

My DP doesn't know as I sort the bills, as well as everything else in our lives.

I'm bit hacked off because he's so untidy and messy. I am majorly stressed and anxious all the time.

He is aware of my stress but doesn't do that much to help. I've accepted that as on the whole he is great, makes me laugh and is a good person.

Anyway he has gone to work today and left the kitchen an absolute tip. I've txt him and he's replied laughing.

I've changed our direct debit details so the money is paid into my account. I'm feeling really guilty about it. But want a bit of revenge and to treat myself.

I never have time for myself and my appearance has gone downhill. Feeling really tired and unappreciated.

My mums told me off though.....

OP posts:
Pumpmonkey · 13/12/2022 00:25

Sorry just realised you are not married. But if you’re cohabiting then its the same principle. Its about respect, for you and your ability to have time for yourself. I lived with a man like this for years…it killed the relationship for me in the end. If he wont discuss it or change his habits, or find a suitable compromise (like a cleaner) then thats a sign he doesn't actually care about you and your needs.

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