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To say this was an unsatisfactory meet Santa gift?

218 replies

TellerTuesday · 12/12/2022 19:25

Curious to hear other people's opinions.

The experience cost £87.63 for one child and one accompanying adult.

Can't fault the Santa experience and the stately home walk round I was more than happy with that but I don't think the gift was commensurate with the cost and calibre of the outing.

I have emailed the company as I honestly think it's just a peg doll and a box of grass moss but interested to hear if others would agree with me.

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Walkerbean16 · 13/12/2022 01:37

Same as a PP we have done Christmas at CH for years, the Santa was incredible. They didn't renew his contract this year so we have followed him as it was him that made it magical! I'm so glad we did after reading all the bad reviews!

Tollumi · 13/12/2022 01:49

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 13/12/2022 01:18

I think Castle Howard PR team have arrived....

...or possibly the House of Mossy Pegs itself.

That head-tilting, "it's a shame you don't quite get what we're marvellously trying to do here..." reply to the OP is SO annoying.

I fabric wrap my gifts. I buy sustainable where I can. I buy local, green, indie, eco, etc. and I've got enough disposable income to chuck at this stuff. I'm their target mug customer and I STILL think this is a cynical, greenwashed money-grab.

Those gifts are fine for a fiver. £15 is astonishingly grabby, and they have an entire website dedicated to more of the same carefully-curated crap. A bit of Kraft paper, a fistful of whatever you can pull up in a wood, and a whole lot of 'ethical' spin.

This kind of greedy, inauthentic, eco-ego crap is really very annoying.

MamaFirst · 13/12/2022 02:55

That's a £5 craft at best!! Shocking!

Marchitectmummy · 13/12/2022 03:15

Sounds like it is centred on the experience rather than the gift.if the experience wss worth it I wouldn't worry. Lapland UK give a beautiful Husky however after visiting 3 times with 5 children 15 huskys are a total waste. I would rather no present and just experience at any of these places.

clpsmum · 13/12/2022 03:18

Sartre · 12/12/2022 19:32

I wouldn’t have paid so much to see Santa, ever and it’s insane that you did!

This

Bunnycat101 · 13/12/2022 03:19

I was going to say that for £87 you might as well charge £90 and get a better gift but then saw the thing was supposedly worth £15. The sustainability angle isn’t a bad thing- I don’t think they’re wrong to try and reduce plastic use/travel for goods. But… there are significantly better ethical gifts out there for the price point.

Itslookinggood · 13/12/2022 04:36

I think you should forward this thread to castle Howard

TheCountessofFitzdotterel · 13/12/2022 07:19

Itslookinggood · 12/12/2022 22:22

15 quid!! For cornflakes and bird food!!!

it’s not castle Howard who are pissing themselves at having rinsed the General Public, it’s the eco-warrior magical gift supply company.

bet they get their supplies from a factory in China.

Most likely the eco warrior craft and gift company are relations of the Howards or were at school with them or something.

QuiltedHippo · 13/12/2022 07:20

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 13/12/2022 00:38

Anyway, if they're so into sustainability, that place could easily house hundreds of people as affordable housing. Is that what they do or their near-future plan?

Reminds me of when Prince William bangs on about earnestly looking for ideas to save the planet without even noticing how colossally wanton his own impact is when compared to the average Brit, let alone the average inhabitant of the world.

Well when you book they go on about how they've generously given a home to one family from Ukraine but then tap you up for donations to cover the costs...

tapdancingmum · 13/12/2022 07:31

TellerTuesday · 12/12/2022 21:56

Jesus wept!!

And it's not suitable for children under 3. So, what are they giving to quite a few of their visitors as I'm sure they will be under 3?

Adelais · 13/12/2022 07:35

Oh bollocks we’ve booked to go to Castle Howard next week! Is that gift given to every child does anyone know? Not sure it’s really suitable for my 2 year old.

TellerTuesday · 13/12/2022 07:37

I believe the younger children get the reindeer food that someone has linked to up thread.

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tapdancingmum · 13/12/2022 07:41

Forest craft and play website isn't loading - looks like it's broken 🙃

Cuppasoupmonster · 13/12/2022 08:24

ChristmasCwtch · 13/12/2022 00:05

That’s a really shit present and it looks creepy!!

Reminds me of Blair witch project lol

Oakdog · 13/12/2022 08:42

QuiltedHippo · 12/12/2022 22:19

Oh and the £5 parking really pissed me off, it's not like they don't have a carpark or acres of space. They justified that it was for lighting and an attendant but it was still a confusing scrum trying to get out. Went to Lotherton the next week who put on extra parking without any fanfare

We've stopped going to Castle Howard despite living close by. Used to love it but it's got so expensive, and I hate the idea of paying for car parking. There's no realistic public transport to get there, so you have to drive and park. Just plain greedy. Everyone that I know that have been say how lovely the house looks, but far too expensive.

And, yes, that's a really rubbish Santa gift!!

SilverGlassHare · 13/12/2022 08:43

The reindeer food isn’t massively suitable for a child under 3 either - the suggestion is that they write a lovely note to Santa on the gift tag provided but it’s an advanced 2 year old who could manage that!

if these gifts really have undergone ‘extensive market research/testing’ I bet it was with children educated at a Steiner school who’ve never picked up a tablet or played with a barbie. So they’d be much more accepting of a peg and handful of moss. The majority of children these days wouldn’t be overjoyed with that.

Clymene · 13/12/2022 09:10

The people who founded the Forest company are a privately educated woman who owns and runs some holiday cottages and her husband who is currently a director of 8 different companies.

I think the school connection with the Howards is probably bang on @TheCountessofFitzdotterel

I drove through there last summer but didn't go in as the prices were eye watering.

Clymene · 13/12/2022 09:14

In her holiday cottages she offers hen keeping lessons for £40 an hour

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Unicorn717 · 13/12/2022 09:16

I can't believe you spent £90 to go and see Santa and got a crap present out of it! I'd have expected to see Rudolph flying round the grotto for that price.

TheYearOfSmallThings · 13/12/2022 09:33

We went to castle Howard and Santa gave my daughter a voodoo doll

They should get this printed on T shirts and sell them on their website. I would buy one.

TheYearOfSmallThings · 13/12/2022 09:34

Or better still, on organic cotton shopping bags.

TheNoodlesIncident · 13/12/2022 09:40

That gift reminds me of the Museum of Childhood in Edinburgh, where DSis and I saw toys that Victorian children had. Some were lovely like prams and train sets but what we remember most are the belongings of children in poverty, the rag "doll" with a dried bean for a head and one made from an old shoe. We were rather traumatised by the paucity of it, the playthings made from any old junk that they could find in the streets.

A peg, some moss, salvaged buttons and bits of cardboard fits right in with that. Fifteen quid is such a massive rip off for that.

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 13/12/2022 10:01

In her holiday cottages she offers hen keeping lessons for £40 an hour

Wow, for £6.50, I can keep a chicken from Asda until it goes manky for as long as I like - and it's cooked too!!

54isanopendoor · 13/12/2022 10:57

SoShallINever · 12/12/2022 23:34

Doesn't surprise me at all for Castle Howard.
One of my children was invited to perform a solo choral recital for them, that they charged others an admission to watch.
They didn't pay the child or even offer them so much as a glass of water, instead they tried to charge them admission 😂
God, it was excruciating, as we then had to listen to the family's rector waxing lyrical about the gracious Lord and Lady and praying for the continued prosperity of the family.

That tells you all you need to know about The Family, I think.
The pathetic peg 'doll' tells you all you need to know about the family connections.

Lysianthus · 13/12/2022 11:09

Gitfeatures · 12/12/2022 21:59

Small parts. Choking hazard. Sharp objects. Risk of injury. Flammable. Do not leave near open flame. Cord. Strangulation risk.

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