Hi, im soon to be divorced from my Husband, I have bought a new house and hope to be moved in by the new year. We are splitting up because he never gave me any real attention and we had a sexless marriage where I felt more like house mates than Husband and Wife. He's always been a bit of a loner but yet normally goes skiing with his friends on his birthday. In a couple of weeks he is 50...I asked him when he was going away and he said he's not and it's just another day...now I feel guilty that he's going to be on his own. Am I wrong in feeling this way? I on the other hand am quite sociable and have lots of family and friends, I've been asked to go on a girls shopping trip that day yet feel like I can't leave him alone, especially on a milestone birthday, what should I do?