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Small but significant healthy daily habits

123 replies

hallesmelly · 04/12/2022 22:36

I'm in a rut at the moment in mind and body. Feeling anxious and not happy with my appearance or general health.

I need to make changes but I know there's no point trying to totally overhaul my life all at once because it will be overwhelming and I'll just fail.

So I'm thinking of trying to gradually introduce small but significant everyday habits to my routine. This week I'll try and get out everyday for a walk even if it's cold. I'll just get myself and the baby wrapped up and we'll go. Also need to give up booze totally but perhaps the wrong time of year for that one!

What else do you do as part of a healthy lifestyle?

OP posts:
Fundays12 · 07/12/2022 06:48

I have 3 kids one with complex additional needs and these are the things I do to help me. I am writing them all in the hope that one suits you.

  1. Shower and a bit of make up every morning. I don’t take long on this but I feel better about me.
  2. Good skincare routine morning and night
  3. Good Breakfast
  4. Walk the kids to school and nursery rather than drive. It’s only 15 minutes walk but makes a huge difference to my mental health and there mood.
  5. Limit alcohol as I feel rubbish if I drink to much
  6. Try meet friends for coffee without kids sometimes (hard as one is always sick recently)
  7. Go to the gym once a week to do a class I enjoy
  8. I invested in a home spin bike second hand from market place and try use it twice a week. I set myself a min of 20 minutes target and tend to go over but 20 minutes feels a lo before you start.
StandUpStraight · 07/12/2022 06:53

It was recommended early in the thread, but I just have to second the Glucose Revolution (by the Glucose Goddess, Jessie Inchauspe), for very accessible hacks to stabilise blood sugar and make you feel mentally and physically much better. Her hacks are so, so simple and totally achievable for a mum of a clingy baby.
I also swear by fitness blender (YouTube) for all kinds of workouts and I am pretty fit - exercise is a major contributor to my well-being. I see Caroline Girvan has been recommended but I would warn you she’s very hardcore and if you’re not feeling well/strong you’ll want to address your nutrition before you embark on something like that. I take a supplement called Heights (specifically for brain health because I wanted to try to address chronic anxiety) daily and magnesium for sleep. I also don’t drink alcohol anymore and haven’t done for 4 years now.

ElbowsandArses · 07/12/2022 07:05

I do / try to do:

pint of water on waking
30 quiet mins for me a day
move my body (ideally outside)
stand on one leg when cleaning teeth
use Squeezy app once a day for pelvic floor
stretch and squats before shower
eat veggies every time I eat (or fruit)
celebrate tiny wins (eg made dinner from scratch! Didn’t drink wine today! Etc)

Odoreida · 07/12/2022 07:21

Swimming. It's not only the exercise - I do all my problem-solving and worrying while going up and down the pool. Also wash my hair there to save energy at home.
OP I hope that even by starting this process you are feeling a bit better - I think it's a sensible and achievable idea.

NewToWoo · 07/12/2022 07:54

potniatheron · 05/12/2022 10:41

The big thing that made a difference for me was devoting just half an hour of every day to exercise. For me it's running, 30 mins, first thing in the morning. I don't monitor my time or anything like that and I'm not particularly fast or good. I don't care because I'm not soing it for those reasons.

I was prompted to start doing it in the first lockdown and I initially laughed at myself because I had never previously been a runner and did not think of myself as someone who 'could do' physical exercise at all. I know understand that exercise is not just for people who are 'in shape', 'fit' or 'good at it'.

If I truly listed all the ways that this has made a difference to my mental health and self-esteem, I'd be here all day and come off as braggy. But it honestly has. A daily slow, pottery, awkward run is now one of the main drivers in me being mentally healthy and happy I think.

The only thing I struggled with in the start was consistency, ie some mornings when it was cold and dark I couldn't be arsed. But I forced myself and that dread actually passed quite quickly, within a couple of months I'd say.

I would genuinely love to hear every reason you can think of that you have benefited from this habit, braggy or not. It would be very motivating to me and probably to others too.

I used to do 4 bootcamps a week but my work pattern changed and I stopped. My MH is getting bad for the first time in years and i think it's due to lack of exercise. And the weight gain and flab and lethargy taht comes from stopping exercising.

SarcasticIntrovert · 07/12/2022 09:22

Dontsayyouloveme · 06/12/2022 14:27

What difference does it make if you get water from your food as opposed to drinking it 🤔

I'm not sure it needs to come from your foods such but more that a lot of people religiously try to physically drink a certain amount of water each day without realising that they have probably achieved a good portion of that through their food. That said, if you're living on a diet of chicken nuggets and potato waffles there's probably not a great deal of decent fluid, but if you're eating lots of fruit and veg that will be a good contribution.

potniatheron · 07/12/2022 12:17

NewToWoo · 07/12/2022 07:54

I would genuinely love to hear every reason you can think of that you have benefited from this habit, braggy or not. It would be very motivating to me and probably to others too.

I used to do 4 bootcamps a week but my work pattern changed and I stopped. My MH is getting bad for the first time in years and i think it's due to lack of exercise. And the weight gain and flab and lethargy taht comes from stopping exercising.

I would say the biggest benefit is my mental health. I have suffered from depression and addiction (thankfully the addiction is in my past now) and habitually turned to food to comfort myself. Since running, I don't feel the need to do that anymore. I honestly don't know why that is but the healthier attitude to food came soon after I began running, maybe because I don't feel as guilty to eating certain foods, so am not driven to binge on them?

Running doesn't give me the 'high' I've sometimes read about but it does give me a perky sense of well being for the rest of the morning which helps my day go better overall.

The other thing it's given me is a greater sense of BEING in my body. Because of my depression and eating issues, I guess I used to regard my body and mind as separate and in some way in conflict. Now, because of exercise, I feel much more integrated and at home in my body if that makes sense. I feel much more like my body is me. Also more body confidence, I haven't exactly got a model figure and I used to be quite clumsy but now I feel like my posture is better and I walk and stand better in general?

Finally, my overall fitness is definitely improving. I don't measure it through any statistics but I can just tell. When I first started running it would take ages for my breathing to go back to normal, now it happens almost at once. I used to be wiped out for about 3 hours after the run, now I still feel tired, but not physically in pain or wiped out. And I do feel more alert than I used to be, mentally, I think (might just be imagining that though).

Finally, I run in a park at dawn and I do get a real sense of happiness from seeing the trees and the sun rising, seeing the seasons change. It makes me feel 'at home' somehow, it's reminded me that humans are meant to be outside and moving and not just sitting down in front of a screen all the time.

I hope that helps :-)

NewToWoo · 07/12/2022 14:05

@potniatheron - that is a brilliant reply. Thank you so much for taking the trouble to go into detail. I appreciate it.

Stickmansmum · 07/12/2022 14:12

determinedtomakethiswork · 05/12/2022 07:44

Keep going with your propranolol. It took three weeks to work with me, but that was absolutely amazing. Be patient!

Are you sure you mean propranolol? And not an SSRI? Propranolol doesn’t work as a build up medication. It gets used and depleted by the body daily. Like paracetamol. It’s the SSRIs that build up and settle in over time.

msssm · 07/12/2022 14:53

Haven't yet read to the end so sorry if this has been asked, but @triplechoc could you please share what app you use? I could really benefit from that I think.

Some great ideas on this thread thanks all 🙏🏻

70sDuvet · 07/12/2022 15:27

If your baby is really clingy like mine was I would recommend a sling if you aren't already using one - I used a ring sling and it felt like i had so much more freedom again. I could even Bf with him in it while walking about.

I can drink loads of water but only if its ice cold. I keep 2 glass litre bottles in the fridge and then top up 2 chillies 500ml insulated bottles. I got them with sports caps as that gets the water in more quickly too.

triplechoc · 07/12/2022 17:07

@msssm I use one called Habit; the free version lets you set up to 3 habits to track, there’s a paid pro version but I’ve never tried it.

Small but significant healthy daily habits
Thisisworsethananticpated · 07/12/2022 17:50

Small runs to the park and do the exercise machines and run home

plus Pilates at home

but the little runs are really good and I try and do daily

I’m slow but I go !

ColdHandsHotHead · 07/12/2022 17:56

What has helped me drinking water is getting a carafe with a filter in it for the bedroom. I fill it before I go to bed, and try to drink a big glass in the evening and another in the morning.

I also take myself up to bed an hour before I want to sleep and spend it giving myself a mani or pedi, or washing my hair, or removing unwanted body hair or something. Just something relaxing that is for me. I appreciate that this is an unheard of luxury for people with small children!

byvirtue · 07/12/2022 18:24

Eat 30 different fruit, veg, nuts, seeds every week

Stop eating ultra processed foods

Cut back on alcohol

Switch to whole foods ie. Wholemeal pasta, rice, bread, whole fruit instead of smoothies. Our body breaks down whole foods differently to when it’s been pre processed.

If you are addicted to sugar, don’t buy sugary treats. Buy a bar of 85% dark chocolate one square a night will curb cravings.

recent studies are debunking the benefits of vitamin supplementation, especially mega dosing which forces your body to work hard to excrete the excess (Google JoAnn Mansons most recent studies).

Put a lock on your phone in the evening as a reminder to stop scrolling and get off social media!

Exercise everyday and if you can get outside in nature for 30minutes a day.

SarcasticIntrovert · 07/12/2022 21:56

potniatheron · 07/12/2022 12:17

I would say the biggest benefit is my mental health. I have suffered from depression and addiction (thankfully the addiction is in my past now) and habitually turned to food to comfort myself. Since running, I don't feel the need to do that anymore. I honestly don't know why that is but the healthier attitude to food came soon after I began running, maybe because I don't feel as guilty to eating certain foods, so am not driven to binge on them?

Running doesn't give me the 'high' I've sometimes read about but it does give me a perky sense of well being for the rest of the morning which helps my day go better overall.

The other thing it's given me is a greater sense of BEING in my body. Because of my depression and eating issues, I guess I used to regard my body and mind as separate and in some way in conflict. Now, because of exercise, I feel much more integrated and at home in my body if that makes sense. I feel much more like my body is me. Also more body confidence, I haven't exactly got a model figure and I used to be quite clumsy but now I feel like my posture is better and I walk and stand better in general?

Finally, my overall fitness is definitely improving. I don't measure it through any statistics but I can just tell. When I first started running it would take ages for my breathing to go back to normal, now it happens almost at once. I used to be wiped out for about 3 hours after the run, now I still feel tired, but not physically in pain or wiped out. And I do feel more alert than I used to be, mentally, I think (might just be imagining that though).

Finally, I run in a park at dawn and I do get a real sense of happiness from seeing the trees and the sun rising, seeing the seasons change. It makes me feel 'at home' somehow, it's reminded me that humans are meant to be outside and moving and not just sitting down in front of a screen all the time.

I hope that helps :-)

This is such a lovely response to read. I'm so glad things are working out for you. Im not a runner but you have inspired me to try it. You've won the internet for me today.

spinachmonster · 07/12/2022 23:22

I have a WhatsApp group with 2 friends, we aim to message each day things we are grateful for. Gives a nice daily connection and insight into their lives and really boosts my mood. - I look forward to doing it each day.

spinachmonster · 07/12/2022 23:25

Oh also face yoga - recently started watching Danielle Collins on YouTube - I try to do 5/ 10 mins every day or other day, I think it makes a difference!!

Also eating a WFPB diet makes me feel great. When I deviate from that I always notice it.

FlowerArranger · 08/12/2022 15:48

Interesting article about the importance of strength and resistance training in today's Guardian:

www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2022/dec/08/strengthen-your-heart-bones-and-maybe-even-your-brain-a-beginners-guide-to-weight-training-at-any-age

If you want to try strength training, a good place to start is Caroline Girvan's Beginners series:

Use fairly light dumbbells (3-5kg) if you are a beginner, listen carefully to her explanations, watch each workout before you actually do it, and repeat the Beginners' series as many times as you need to until you feel comfortable. Then progress to EPIC 3, EPIC Heat or EPIC Endgame, which (I think) are actually easier than EPIC 1 and 2.

You can make it as easy or as difficult as you want to by using lighter weights, doing the exercises at a slower pace, or modify anything that you find to difficult.

There is a thread in the Exercise forum where posters share their experiences of Caroline and ask questions.

FlowerArranger · 08/12/2022 15:58

Here is the (second) thread in the Exercise forum where posters share their experiences of Caroline and ask questions.

www.mumsnet.com/talk/exercise/4545436-getting-fitter-and-stronger-with-caroline-girvan-all-welcome?page=1

Saltywalruss · 08/12/2022 15:59

Eat an apple.

msssm · 12/12/2022 21:54

Thank you @triplechoc I've downloaded and will give it a try 🙏🏻

Lcb123 · 12/12/2022 22:01

I find cutting down on alcohol more achievable than having none-like plan which days I’ll not drink in the week. And have some nice non alcoholic drinks at home

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