So I’m going to divide opinions here but I’ve got to ask , AIBU to be absolutely delighted with this?
as a family we’ve had a really tough few years , DC has sen , he’s marvellous but hard work , we’ve had to learn to live around his needs. I’ve recently had a horrible health scare which is still ongoing and I genuinely have had to draw every strength I have to keep going with parenting and career .i have at times , been grumpy, dismissive and cold to DH. We’ve both been kind and civil to each other but definitely drifted apart . Anyway , DH has just come back from his works do, it’s pretty much the only night he goes out partying and I knew what to expect when I called him at 2:30 for a quick update and he sounded like he was melting as he slurred that he was nearly home .He’s home now , he’s been lovely and is talking absolute rubbish but with just enough wit that it’s making me collapse with laughter . We have just had the most wonderful , romantic connection in the kitchen because he’s in a hugely silly mood and so am I and for just an hour or so of talking nonsense and laughing all the struggles of SEN parenting , money , cancer and everything else have melted away and it’s been pure silliness just like when we were young and carefree. I know he’s gonna snore and fart like a bush pig all night but I’ve honestly just struggled to breath with laughter and I’m actually feeling like a whole person again.
i think I’ve just remembered how to banter and have fun . Thank you DH boss , I’m sorry if he’s been a pain / expensive ( he’s a 6’4 22st Viking so achieving this level of pissed won’t have been cheap ) tonight but I think he really needed this . So did I .