To think this is really inappropriate

[Merryandbrightt]

The man I have been seeing casually has a 15yr DS from a previous relationship. He told me th

e other day that his Ex wife had been taking the Micky out of him whilst speaking to his DS. Apparently he said to his son ‘well before she runs her mouth about me she needs to think about what of mine has been in that mouth of hers’ is it just me that thinks that’s really inappropriate to say your 15 yr old DS?

He's absolutely Vile and he's testing you. You say he has form for these sort of comments?
He's literally told you exactly who he is and finding out how much you will take.
Get rid of him.

So why have you continued to see him after his first remark?

I am not sure why I have continued seeing him to be honest. I have got the impression that he just thinks women are there to please him and no other reason and I think he will pass this way of viewing women onto his son

That is fucking disgusting. Get rid and tell him why on your way out of the door.

This is the bit you see. Imagine what’s hidden…

You seriously need to have a look at your values.

That's why he's her ex! Very inappropriate!

Vile. I wouldn't be seeing him again that would have killed any attraction dead for me. Even if its a tense relationship with his ex he should be speaking about her with respect in front of their kids and putting the kids needs first.

I would mix with someone like that.

Sorry, WOULDN"T mix with someone like that!

Surely you know he thinks of you in the same degrading ways. Are you OK with this?

Thank you everyone for your replies. He is just so blasé about things like this and he also thinks it’s normal that his own son knows about his sex life.

He has a pattern of saying things like this! Why don't you end it with him?

If that’s your view run for the hills disgusting man. And wtf is that he teaching his son .
you say it’s casual so you don’t know him that well yet and it sounds like you really don’t want to.